I was raised without religion. I was not raised to think that marriage vows meant anything. Really, I had no idea what marriage was or what it meant. If anything, I thought it was something I should avoid. I had no … Read More…
Tag: commitment
If A Man Says He Doesn’t Want To Marry, Does He Mean It?
I’m acquainted with a man in his fifties; he does not want to marry again. He’s been dating a gal for a couple of years. They’re exclusive. The man has been candid with the woman from day one. He does … Read More…
Commitment Phobic Heart Breaker – Can She Change?
Dear Elsa,
I don’t enjoy breaking hearts, but I’m ruthlessly efficient at it. I’m a self-proclaimed commitment phobic and I’m not entirely sure that I’m fed up of being one just yet. But if I were fed up with being one, is it possible for me not to be one any more?
I’m in the process of breaking up (again!) with a wonderful man, who would give the world to me – if I let him. He’s aware of my phobia and has spent hours upon hours doing research and trying to figure a way to help me get over this. I don’t believe I can change even if I wanted to. Am I wrong?
Heart Breaker
What If You’re Cut Out To Be Married?
We often hear that not all people are cut out to be married. We hear about how society pressured these people to marry in the past. We’ve swung so far in the other direction, people who ARE cut out to … Read More…
1 Minute Astrology: Tips For The Rest Of 2012 – Saturn in Libra – Should I stay or should I go?
Tips from the goat.
Advice For Commitment Phobic Woman In Her 40’s
Elsa, I feel like I’m in the midst of yet another transition or maybe still transitioning, having not yet found my place in the world, not yet found my love/life partner in this world, not yet found my livelihood in … Read More…
Juno And Mercury: Thinking About Commitment
“Daring ideas are like chessmen moved forward; they may be beaten, but they may start a winning game.”
–Johann Wolfgang von Goethe