This is from before I got my control freakishness in hand. I wrote it in 2003, as part of a series of vignettes that illustrated the scope of my problem with this. I’m in my early 20’s here. It’s my … Read More…
Tag: Relating
Waking Up To Your Shadow Mars
“It’s in my personal relationship with my husband where I can be quite mean and aggressive on a regular basis, not as much with other people. People wouldn’t describe me as bitchy (I have a strong angular Venus that is … Read More…
Jupiter In Gemini & The Birth Of Blogging
Jupiter will ingress into Gemini on May 25th, 2024. I quite excited for this; slobbering in fact. Do you know that blogging began with Jupiter in Gemini? How cool is that. Little people, all of the world, writing and freely … Read More…
Jupiter In Gemini & The Birth Of Blogging
Jupiter will ingress into Gemini on May 25th, 2024. I quite excited for this; slobbering in fact. Do you know that blogging began with Jupiter in Gemini? How cool is that. Little people, all of the world, writing and freely sharing information. I was …
Scanning For Guilt, Failure, Fault, All Day, Every Day
Most would agree, it’s harder to get along with people these days. I don’t think there’s a single reason why. It seems inordinately complex and layered. I don’t like this so I’ve been trying to figure it out (for myself). …
Why Do People Admire & Defend Psychopaths?
“Elsa, please write something about the people who follow, enable and support psychopaths. What do their charts show. There are those who lie and those who lie to support the liar. Sycophants?” Libra Rising on Born That Way: Talent & &#…
Living The Other Person’s Story
You meet someone and adopt their views or attitudes about things. You somehow adapt. Before you know it, you’re living the other person’s narrative. This might be a Libra codependence thing or maybe a Venus Neptune or Venus in Pisces ……
Pluto In Aquarius: Humanity Goes Underground
I woke up one day having a pretty good idea what Pluto in Aquarius would bring. This was in 2015. I decided to post about it because I was that sure. It’s hard to believe nearly ten years have passed. I … Read More…
Hey, Non-Crazy Women Who Want A Man!
I’m in a situation where I talk to men and women of all ages, all the time. I’m just off the phone with yet another man who would like to be in a relationship. Problem is, women hate men? Women … Read More…
When Your Deepest Darkest Secret Is Exposed
I spoke with a friend yesterday. His deepest, darkest secret has been exposed. I’ve been through this, twice. The first time was an agony; I thought I’d die. The second time… well, it was like the second time your heart … Read M…