Sometimes I feel like a wide-eyed child in this world. It happens when I learn something new. Something I’d have never guessed unless someone spelled it out for me. This is what happened, a few dozen years ago when, Satori, explained that people …
Tag: Relating
How Or What Do You Present Yourself When You Meet Someone New?
In astrology, it’s common to refer to the ascendant as a person’s “first handshake”. This is true outside of the fact it’s not nearly that simple. I’m writing this to pair with an earlier post. If you care about rel…
Can Relationship Patterns Be Changed Or Is Synastry Hard-Wired?
Here’s a bold claim: if you pay attention the first time two people meet, the whole relationship can be told. I think this is the case. The energy between the two people mixes that fast! To be clear, I’m talking about the mechanics of the i…
“Let’s Move To Town…”
Astrology in real life
The Moon In Synastry
When judging synastry, don’t overlook the moon. When two moons are in easy aspect, it gives a feeling of a blood connection. This is because the moon represents your family. When someone blends into your family…well, think about it. Also t…
Analyzing Relationships: Synastry, The First Step
“Know thyself.” –Ancient Greek Maxim Synastry is the name given to the technique of chart comparison. You put one chart alongside another and compare how the charts interact, what interaspects the planets and angles make to each other…
Avoiding Divorce & Separation By Dealing With Challenge In Your Relationship
Ten years ago when a couple got in trouble, they just got divorced. Twenty years ago, same thing. There might be some couples therapy before the separation. I have a Scorpio ex who said, a couple goes to therapy when they need help breaking up! There&…
Can An Extrovert & An Introvert Partner Successfully?
Yesterday, I spoke with an extrovert who is partnered with an introvert. Their situation was rich and complex, but it’s really made me wonder. Can an extrovert and an introvert work out? For the purpose of this discussion, let’s look at a…
Control Freak Extraordinaire
This is from before I got my control freakishness in hand. I wrote it in 2003, as part of a series of vignettes that illustrated the scope of my problem with this. I’m in my early 20’s here. It’s my … Read More…
Waking Up To Your Shadow Mars
“It’s in my personal relationship with my husband where I can be quite mean and aggressive on a regular basis, not as much with other people. People wouldn’t describe me as bitchy (I have a strong angular Venus that is … Read More…