Tag: Real Life

Are You Vulnerable Or Defended, Natally?

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Sometimes I look at a chart and see profound vulnerability.  Things like tremendous sensitivity or crippling of some sort. Other charts are spectacularly defended.  A Cardinal grand cross on angles would be an example. The person is a fortress. Then th…

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Pluto Transit To My Sun: Raw, Real & Invigorating

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I eventually got comfortable with the soldier having this leg up on me. I realized, I needed him to recover my memories. The fact my sister and I was gone through a similar process, when we went to therapy, jointly, but separately, helped. If this soun…

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Shack Man: Current Transits

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There were new comments on the Shack Man story today.  I’m glad people are reading and hope more will. There is A LOT to take from that story. As I was writing, I referenced his chart of course, but I was well through it, before I thought to cons…

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Excavating Elsa From Her Brain Death

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I’m struggling to write about my husband, because it’s not a usual situation.  I generally have excellent recall, as you can tell by my stories. This is not the case, when it comes to him. I’m afraid this is going to be hard for the c…

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What Happens When Pluto Transits Your 10th House?

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Pluto spends on average, fifteen years transiting a house. Whatever you read may sound like a death sentence or something horribly grueling that you’ll barely be able to endure. In reality, the transit is so slow and so deep, you’re not lik…

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Beginning In The Middle: Talking About Those Songs

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I introduced my husband on this blog, in 2006 or so.  I wrote about him extensively; like maybe 100 posts. I took most of those posts down, to appease google; a force is which barely relevant anymore. I know there is lot of encouragement / pressure to …

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Attachment Styles ‘Round The Zodiac

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Is there correlation between astrology and relationship attachment styles?  It seems to me, “nature”, is part of the equation here. Attachment Style - Secure Childhood Experience – Caregivers were responsive, loving, and consistent. A…

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Music That Wrecks (Or Repairs) You

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I had an Aquarian friend, when I was younger.  She was ten years older than me. Pisces moon, Sagittarius rising.  We used to travel together a lot.  We also shared music, also a lot. One day, I put Blood on the Tracks on…she wanted it off, immedi…

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