“It’s in my personal relationship with my husband where I can be quite mean and aggressive on a regular basis, not as much with other people. People wouldn’t describe me as bitchy (I have a strong angular Venus that is … Read More…
Tag: psychology
New Angle On Venus Pluto Aspects
I’ve been writing about ex-lovers (corpses) coming back around when Venus aspects Pluto. Venus, Mars and Pluto are conjunct in Aquarius at the moment. A longtime client hired me yesterday. She wanted to talk about something I wrote in a ……
Scanning For Guilt, Failure, Fault, All Day, Every Day
Most would agree, it’s harder to get along with people these days. I don’t think there’s a single reason why. It seems inordinately complex and layered. I don’t like this so I’ve been trying to figure it out (for myself). …
The Upside Of A Giant Psychological Problem
I have a client who is working on a longstanding problem that causes him a serious problem on a nearly a daily basis. I am not exaggerating. This is due a “psychological cowlick“. Basically, stimulus comes in via some kind … Read Mor…
Your Lizard Brain: What Can You Not Help But Respond To?
This is an old post from 2009, but it’s just so deeply true. Pulling it up to go way beneath the superficial… I was driving across Nebraska to see my husband, thinking about that gal, Kate, looking for the beta … Read More…
Envied By The Rich
Hi, Elsa I don’t have much material wise in life, but I have many talents. I use them to live an interesting productive life. I never boast about them. Quiet soul. No matter what- everywhere I go I meet envy…someone … Read More…
How To Settle Longstanding Disagreements
A significant number of couples have longstanding disagreements which degrade their marriages and their lives in general, over time. The same can be said for family and other personal relationships. It seems in the best interest of both parties to …
Buckwheat Honey – Real & Fake
You’re looking at raw, buckwheat honey. I love this stuff, but if you want some you better, “bring some friends and pack a lunch”, as we used to say. It’s not that expensive but it’s very hard to get. This is … Read …
Self-Hatred, Steered and Engineered
When I launched this blog it was centered on giving advice. In fact, it was called, “ElsaElsa – The Advice Blog”. I’ve been reflecting on the changes that have unfolded over the years. Adapting To Change Over The Last Twenty &#…
Can You Eradicate The Human Conscience?
Most are born with a conscience. I’m talking about crossing lines in your life, doing things you know are wrong, and feeling it. We see many people behaving in ways that are amoral. Why doesn’t it bother them? Well a … Read More…