Tag: Relating

Scott Dumps Me & I Recover

I published the Dad post so you could appreciate this… Scott used to write for my blog, years ago.  We were doing, “he said, she said.” I think this was back in 2002. I am not editing this. It was intended to be as it is. In this stor…

Pluto Transit To Your Sun: Stripped Of Impurities

Pluto transited my sun in 2003. I had just gotten in touch with the soldier (my current husband) after more than two decades apart. It was freakishly intense. It was so intense I abruptly cut off contact with him after some months. There was no alterna…

Trashing Your Ex: Relationship Karma

Does the manner in which you leave one relationship impact the next? Does the trail of bodies you leave behind mean anything? You’re going to be a decent person, when?   *I recorded this in 2008 when people were breaking up via email.  Then it wa…

Meeting Someone Who Triggers You

I was scrolling the the “What Do You Want From Astrology” post, looking for what I might write about.  Several people mentioned they want astrology to illuminate their interactions with other.  I was mulling this when I ran across this post…

Transactional Personalities & Relationships

I have very little experience with people with transactional personalities, but I do know a few perfect specimens.  To be clear, a transactional personality is someone who never acts (positively or negatively) if there’s nothing to gain. This idea is i…

Equal Houses In Real Life

The best way to learn astrology is by paying attention.  House systems came up on the podcast with Shonagh. I ran down my ideas on this. Basically, I use Equal houses, because I worked with, Koch, Placidus and Equal – all three, simultaneously, f…

The 8th House In Synastry

anonymoushermit asked about people who fall in your 8th house and you in theirs. It’s a great question and not that easy to answer. I want to take a stab it it because I have a packed 8th house. I encounter a lot of people due to my job. I can de…