Does the manner in which you leave one relationship impact the next? Does the trail of bodies you leave behind mean anything? You’re going to be a decent person, when? *I recorded this in 2008 when people were breaking up via email. Then it wa…
Tag: Relating
Meeting Someone Who Triggers You
I was scrolling the the “What Do You Want From Astrology” post, looking for what I might write about. Several people mentioned they want astrology to illuminate their interactions with other. I was mulling this when I ran across this post…
Transactional Personalities & Relationships
I have very little experience with people with transactional personalities, but I do know a few perfect specimens. To be clear, a transactional personality is someone who never acts (positively or negatively) if there’s nothing to gain. This idea is i…
Synastry: Where Does Your Partner’s Sun Fall In Your Chart?
When evaluating a relationship, pay mind to the house in your chart where your partner’s sun falls. That house will be lit up and energized by your partner’s solar energy. For example, my husband’s Sun falls in my 4th house. He energi…
Saturn In Pisces: “I’m Terrible & Nobody Likes Me!”
With Saturn in Pisces, it’s common people feel rejected. The problem with this, is the rejection is often imagined. A call or a text or an email is not responded to immediately, means the person hates me, right? The suffering caused by scenari…
Equal Houses In Real Life
The best way to learn astrology is by paying attention. House systems came up on the podcast with Shonagh. I ran down my ideas on this. Basically, I use Equal houses, because I worked with, Koch, Placidus and Equal – all three, simultaneously, f…
Pluto In Capricorn’s Effects On Younger Generations
Twenty-five years ago, a Canadian astrologer I knew, told me if a computer could simulate the full body sensations of sex, she would be a buyer on day one. I was floored; left to stare at her moon in Aquarius – really? She was sure and I believ…
The 8th House In Synastry
anonymoushermit asked about people who fall in your 8th house and you in theirs. It’s a great question and not that easy to answer. I want to take a stab it it because I have a packed 8th house. I encounter a lot of people due to my job. I can de…
An Effective Approach To Synastry – Abstract But Logical – Video
I’ve spent nearly my entire life studying astrology and relationships. My ideas are boiled down, at this point. Never discount simple things like “nature” in favor of complex astrological techniques or equations… Catch up here …
Living In The Shadow Of Your Parent
Some people loom large. They have some quality about them. It could be money, fame, power, or things having to do with their character or their personality. Charisma, for example. But also a hard-core sense of control, or a violent nature, or many othe…