Hi, Elsa. How do you deal with a chart that just says “ouch” in regard to relationships? I’ve always struggled with maintaining friendships and beyond that, I tend to become a target for scapegoating and gossip, especially in work sit…
Tag: Relating
Libra Eclipse Challenge – Overcome Narcissistic Tendencies
Mars will square sun, moon and Mercury in Libra next week. This energy will peak on Wednesday. Libra rules relationships. Mars agitates. I expect people to clash, and in fact, I’m already seeing this in consultations. I have Mars and Mercury in…
Why Is It So Hard To Find A Partner?
Men and women both struggle to partner these days. It’s agonizing for me to watch because I am positive it should not be this hard! I’m in a position to judge this. As I’ve explained many times, meeting and greeting / mating rituals…
Using Astrology To Avoid Violent, Abusive Relationships
Mars signifies violence and aggression in astrology. We all have Mars in our chart. Given sufficient provocation, we’re all capable to acting aggressively. That said, some fuses are shorter than others. They also have different qualities… …
The Composite Sun Shows The Purpose Of A Relationship
The composite sun shows the purpose of a relationship. It shows where and how the couple shine and express their vital life energy. The life’s (sun/solar) purpose of the the coupling? Not surprisingly, my husband and I have a 8th house composite …
Underestimating People & Misjudging Synastry
Continuing this series on how astrologers can be skewed when reading charts, this is a good time to mention my own bias: I am biased towards the couple. Barring abuse, I’m geared towards saving a marriage rather than scrapping it. Many people use…
Instinct vs Intuition
My intuition is very strong. I’ll often act on intuition alone. My intuition has led me into some awkward situations. I can’t really say they were good or bad, though I can say they are never terrible. Because I’m being guided by some…
Astrology, Psychology, Projection and Psychodrama
This is was a hot topic in Elsa-world back in 2007. I have a client struggling with this now, so… “… I always know when people don’t like me right off the bat…” -MahEggo Lilly followed up: “ditto to MahEggo…
Friends Who Sabotage Your Relationships With Men
Women make women miserable more often than men do, though the women don’t realize it. This is a common scene as it unfolds: -The man and women meet, they like each other and various things ensue. They have sex for example and they talk to each ot…
Man With Venus Conjunct Neptune – Impossible To Please?
I was talking to a pal… “You realize no woman is going to make him happy? It’s not personal to you?” “Um…” “You don’t realize it,” I said. “Okay, l’ll explain. Any woman this guy g…