Men and women both struggle to partner these days. It’s agonizing for me to watch because I am positive it should not be this hard! I’m in a position to judge this. As I’ve explained many times, meeting and greeting / mating rituals…
Tag: Relating
Using Astrology To Avoid Violent, Abusive Relationships
Mars signifies violence and aggression in astrology. We all have Mars in our chart. Given sufficient provocation, we’re all capable to acting aggressively. That said, some fuses are shorter than others. They also have different qualities… …
The Composite Sun Shows The Purpose Of A Relationship
The composite sun shows the purpose of a relationship. It shows where and how the couple shine and express their vital life energy. The life’s (sun/solar) purpose of the the coupling? Not surprisingly, my husband and I have a 8th house composite …
Underestimating People & Misjudging Synastry
Continuing this series on how astrologers can be skewed when reading charts, this is a good time to mention my own bias: I am biased towards the couple. Barring abuse, I’m geared towards saving a marriage rather than scrapping it. Many people use…
Instinct vs Intuition
My intuition is very strong. I’ll often act on intuition alone. My intuition has led me into some awkward situations. I can’t really say they were good or bad, though I can say they are never terrible. Because I’m being guided by some…
Astrology, Psychology, Projection and Psychodrama
This is was a hot topic in Elsa-world back in 2007. I have a client struggling with this now, so… “… I always know when people don’t like me right off the bat…” -MahEggo Lilly followed up: “ditto to MahEggo…
Friends Who Sabotage Your Relationships With Men
Women make women miserable more often than men do, though the women don’t realize it. This is a common scene as it unfolds: -The man and women meet, they like each other and various things ensue. They have sex for example and they talk to each ot…
Man With Venus Conjunct Neptune – Impossible To Please?
I was talking to a pal… “You realize no woman is going to make him happy? It’s not personal to you?” “Um…” “You don’t realize it,” I said. “Okay, l’ll explain. Any woman this guy g…
Handling Your Rage & Fury (& Other Bad Behaviors)
I have a strong urge to run my mouth. I check myself and I have for years. I had a brief exchange in the forum that prompted me to think about the last time I launched a true. verbal attack. It was in 2000; maybe 1999? I know this, because my son was …
Libra Sun, Scorpio Moon Can’t Mind Their Own Business
Hello Elsa, This question is about someone who tries to solve everyone else’s problems and wants to talk about it all the time. I have a fair amount of Libra, but I don’t have Mars in Libra. You have mentioned your own Mars in Libra and I&#…