There was a debate in the forum about who should pay on a first date. I figure if there is going to be conflict over this on the first date, that’s a sign the people are not compatible. Some people … Read More…
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I feel a good number of people leave their marriage because they’re unhappy with themselves and they project the cause of their unhappiness onto their partner. They don’t realize that you can run but you can’t hide. Their dissatisfaction will … Read More…
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Do you have an opposition in your chart? Planets in Libra or a heavily tenanted 7th houses? If so, you’re going to be inclined to project various things onto others. Here’s a good reason to curb your propensity: It makes … Read More….
A reader wrote: “There are some synastry aspects that make people want to run the other way, a Saturn square or a Neptune one say, but that kind of reaction doesn’t take in to account the natal relationship each person … Read More…
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A reader asks: Regarding the opposite sex: what is the number one astrology aspect or configuration that you stay away from? As in, what, if anything stands out as a ‘signal’ or red flag for you (for you personally), and is this … Read More…
It’s pretty common a person want their ex to suffer, post a break-up. But what if this is something you can’t achieve? Because there are people out there who just can’t be got, if you know what I mean. Are … Read More…
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You can credit, God, astrology. grand design or whatever you like. For some reason, we draw people who somehow fit with us. Even if we’re irritated by someone, if we examine the situation, we’re likely to realize our run-in with … Read More…
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I was telling a friend someone about the process I go through when I make a new friend. How anyone who comes on with too much, too fast, a “new best friend” sort made me nervous. “When someone comes in and thinks … Read More…
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I’ve written about Libra seeking escape from strife and it’s true. If you’re going to be disgusting and gross and make fart jokes, Libra is going to walk. Mercurial types, Gemini and Virgo, want constant variety and mental stimulation…
When it comes to studying astrology, oppositions are far and away my favorite thing to consider. The tension they create, interests me. But it’s also the confoundedness of it all. To illustrate what I mean, this is a story about … Read More…