Do you have a psychological cowlick? I wrote this in 2010. I’m pulling this up because I want to get back into this phenomena. I have a deeper understanding today. Here’s the original post: Sometimes I work with a client … Read More…..
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Degrading A Person Because You Feel Bad
“You feel bad about yourself, so you’re degrading me,” I said. This is a common scenario but few are aware of it (on either side of the equation). Having grown up with a packed 8th house and a parent who … Read More…
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The House Of The Composite Sun Shows The Purpose Of A Relationship
The composite sun shows the purpose of a relationship. It shows where and how the couple shine and express their vital life energy. Not surprisingly, my husband and I have a 8th house composite Sun. Correspondingly, we live (and shine) … Read Mor…
Love And The Black Box Theory
ujI did a series of videos on synastry once, they start here: The Main Techniques Work, But Not Really! I talk about the limits of the various astrological technique when it comes to judging compatibility between two people. You may … Read More…
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Resolving Conflict With Venus Trine Or Sextile Mars
There was a debate in the forum about who should pay on a first date. I figure if there is going to be conflict over this on the first date, that’s a sign the people are not compatible. Some people … Read More…
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Divorcing For The Wrong Reasons
I feel a good number of people leave their marriage because they’re unhappy with themselves and they project the cause of their unhappiness onto their partner. They don’t realize that you can run but you can’t hide. Their dissatisfaction will … Read More…
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Oppositions: How Projection Sets You Up To Be Victimized
Do you have an opposition in your chart? Planets in Libra or a heavily tenanted 7th houses? If so, you’re going to be inclined to project various things onto others. Here’s a good reason to curb your propensity: It makes … Read More….
Bad Synastry, Bad Composite, Good Relationship?
A reader wrote: “There are some synastry aspects that make people want to run the other way, a Saturn square or a Neptune one say, but that kind of reaction doesn’t take in to account the natal relationship each person … Read More…
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Astrological Red Flags When Dating Men
A reader asks: Regarding the opposite sex: what is the number one astrology aspect or configuration that you stay away from? As in, what, if anything stands out as a ‘signal’ or red flag for you (for you personally), and is this … Read More…
I Want My Ex To Suffer!
It’s pretty common a person want their ex to suffer, post a break-up. But what if this is something you can’t achieve? Because there are people out there who just can’t be got, if you know what I mean. Are … Read More…
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