Astrologers can see see things in charts that cause problems in a person’s life. I spoke with a client this morning who is concerned about various patterns of behavior in her past. She can point to the thing in her … Read More…
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How To Break An Addiction To Destructive Relationships
I made this video for a client who was obsessed with having relationships with older men. She was subconsciously driven to do this and she wanted to break free. Have you identified patterns that doom your relationships? You can break those … Read…
Saturn In Synastry – Mentor Or Oppressor?
“My boyfriend has Saturn conjunct my Sun. Will he hold me back?” Your boyfriend may hold you back. He may also be the best thing that ever happened to you! If someone has Saturn aspecting one of your personal planets, … Read More…
Deliberately Sending Mixed Messages
Mercury will ingress into Aquarius on January 2nd. I like this sign to represent this placement… It’s common that people send mixed messages. Some do so deliberately. Have you ever purposely offered someone a mixed message? What was your mo…
Unrequited Love – Why Pine Over Someone Disinterested In You?
Why do people continue to pursue or obsess over someone who has rejected them? I’ve seen people get caught in situations like this for years. There seems to be a number of reasons why. They just can’t believe that the … Read More…
Synastry: What If Love Natures Are Mismatched?
What happens when two people love each other but their love natures are mismatched? Can something like this be resolved? Note, this video is from 2008. I’m talking about being influenced by the media. Clearly, I was aware of this … Read Mor…
Mixed Messages, Gaslighting, Manipulation…
Do you have a psychological cowlick? I wrote this in 2010. I’m pulling this up because I want to get back into this phenomena. I have a deeper understanding today. Here’s the original post: Sometimes I work with a client … Read More…..
Degrading A Person Because You Feel Bad
“You feel bad about yourself, so you’re degrading me,” I said. This is a common scenario but few are aware of it (on either side of the equation). Having grown up with a packed 8th house and a parent who … Read More…
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The House Of The Composite Sun Shows The Purpose Of A Relationship
The composite sun shows the purpose of a relationship. It shows where and how the couple shine and express their vital life energy. Not surprisingly, my husband and I have a 8th house composite Sun. Correspondingly, we live (and shine) … Read Mor…
Love And The Black Box Theory
ujI did a series of videos on synastry once, they start here: The Main Techniques Work, But Not Really! I talk about the limits of the various astrological technique when it comes to judging compatibility between two people. You may … Read More…
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