Do you think it’s possible a person think so little of themselves, they automatically think little of anyone who would get involved with them? I think may be pretty common…and most likely subconscious. What do you think? My 8th house … Read More…
Tag: Relating
Venus: Beauty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder!
Dina asks on He’s Not Into You: “But, Elsa, what if you’re fat? Or what if you’re unkempt? Primping is so emphasized in our culture, playing the courting game, wearing clothing that flatters and changes you.. “Staying just as you … R…
Can A Relationship Remain Stable When Uranus Transits Venus?
Hi, Elsa. Is it possible to keep one’s relationship or have a stable relationship during a Uranus conjunct Venus transit? Wondering United States Dear Wondering, Good question! Uranus signifies change, not break up. Yes. It’s possible that your relationship remain stable … Read More…
Does Everyone Have A Dark Side?
Hi Elsa, Everyone has a dark side, right? I mean are there people who are just so full-blown sweet and adjusted and owning their stuff and never saying a mean word to anyone and fun and nice and kind and … Read More…
Do You Blame The Man By Default?
I know a woman who does not trust women. She’s aware of her bias but she can’t overcome it. Her problems stems from her relationship with her untrustworthy mother. Her father was as bad or worse. She knows this, she’s told me … Read More…
Venus In Cancer Opposing Pluto In Capricorn – Corpse Alert
Years ago I wrote about how old lovers come back when Venus opposes Pluto. I called them “corpses” which seems to have caught on in the astrology world. I went on and on about how these people would come back … Read More…
Deal Breakers In Relationship
Venus will oppose Pluto in two weeks. This will end some relationships. I wonder if people might describe circumstances where they know they’d leave a relationship. Could be that you are cheated on or the like, but in reality there are … Read More…
People Who Provoke You To Improve Yourself
This is loosely related to my last post, Adults Playing Kid’s Games. I’m writing these pieces backwards. I thought to write this a few days ago but could not find the time. Then my husband made the remark that prompted … Read More…
Adults Playing Children’s (Psychological) Games
I was talking to my husband and Jilly about a gal who’s upset with me. It’s a story I’ve told over and over on this blog. If there is a group of people and someone needs to throw a shadow … Read More…
Capricorn, Low Self-Esteem Problems In Love
Dear Elsa, As soon as I like somebody and build up a relationship to him I want to be the VIP in his life! I know that sounds immature and maybe it is but this tendency of mine really burdens … Read More…