Tag: Real Life

Notes On Saturn Transits Your 3rd House

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When Saturn transits your third house, you can expect to grapple with and sort, all Mercury-ruled things in your life.  Thinking, Talking, Writing.. .well, all mental processes.  Also mobility. Safe, responsible (Saturn) driving. Perhaps a commitment t…

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Shack Man: The Family Opposition To Me & The Decision

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Catch up here – Shack Man Chapter 32 – The Family Opposition To Me & Shack’s Decision “I’ve thought it through and concluded that you’re right. They don’t want him to marry you. Now what’s their reason?” my sister asked. “I don’t know.” “Guess.” “M…

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Distraction & Generational Trauma

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“People need lots of distractions to prevent centuries of generational trauma from rearing its ugly head.” -actualbuttblack This is an interesting idea. I have backed way off the internet, and all kind of things have surfaced.  From what I …

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Shack Man: It’s Hell, When Wallflowers Come To Life

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Catch up here – Shack Man Chapter 30: It’s Hell, When Wallflowers Come To Life I already knew, Shack, was wrestling over my ring. He’d told me, himself. He said he was trying to work it out and he thought he’d be able to. “If she doesn’t want to …

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Psychological Dissociation With Saturn In Pisces

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I wrote this in 2023. With Saturn conjunct Neptune in Pisces, it’s even more relevant. Dissociating is the experience of detaching from reality. This is a new topic for this site which is surprising considering I know so much about it.  It came t…

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Shack Man – Shack’s Brother Speaks

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Catch up here – Shack Man Chapter 29 – Shack’s Brother, Speaks Shack liked to run. If you happened to work downtown in Denver, in this era, you might have seen him. Once a week, he’d take a two hour lunch, strip down to his gym shorts and run in the st…

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Shack Man: Shack Astrology

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Catch up here – Shack Man Chapter Twenty-Eight – Shack Astrology We moved into our new house, right away. Shack’s brother helped him move the stereo. As soon as it was set up, he took off, saying, “I’ll leave you two alone.” We were like two happy teen…

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Shack Man- Well, Now What?

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Catch up here – Shack Man Chapter 24 – Well, Now What? “Don’t worry about it,” I said, as we walked towards the car. Shack’s brother’s head whipped around. “Seriously,” I said. Don’t worry about it, especially not on my account.” “But… but he called yo…

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People As Caricatures With No Nuance

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We are all complex, nuance beings who are constantly changing. Evolving or devolving, depending.  But when I look around, I see people presented as simple caricatures. At this point, I am not sure how many people actually want to stay “people&#82…

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Cost And Benefits Of Boundaries In Relationship

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Are you a sensitive person?  I am and I react to others, for good or ill.  This is an old post but relevant at the moment.  Good information, culled from fifty years of experience at this point. I want to continue along the lines of Surviving Your Rela…

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