This is was a hot topic in Elsa-world back in 2007. I have a client struggling with this now, so… “… I always know when people don’t like me right off the bat…” -MahEggo Lilly followed up: “ditto to MahEggo…
Tag: psychology
Qualities Of Authentically Mental Healthy People
This is very interesting. I just have to share it. Excerpt from Kazimierz Dabrowski’s Views on Authentic Mental Health By Elizabeth Mika “…Mental health of average people is characterized by relatively easy adjustment to changing life condi…
Friends Who Sabotage Your Relationships With Men
Women make women miserable more often than men do, though the women don’t realize it. This is a common scene as it unfolds: -The man and women meet, they like each other and various things ensue. They have sex for example and they talk to each ot…
Man With Venus Conjunct Neptune – Impossible To Please?
I was talking to a pal… “You realize no woman is going to make him happy? It’s not personal to you?” “Um…” “You don’t realize it,” I said. “Okay, l’ll explain. Any woman this guy g…
Pluto Transit To Your Sun: Stripped Of Impurities
Pluto transited my sun in 2003. I had just gotten in touch with the soldier (my current husband) after more than two decades apart. It was freakishly intense. It was so intense I abruptly cut off contact with him after some months. There was no alterna…
Temporary Insanity Happens! Lapses Of Judgement!
I asked, Is Insanity Contagious? There are interesting takes on that thread. As it developed, I started thinking about things other wrote. It’s led me to write this… There is such a thing as temporary insanity (which is different than ̶…
Meeting Someone Who Triggers You
I was scrolling the the “What Do You Want From Astrology” post, looking for what I might write about. Several people mentioned they want astrology to illuminate their interactions with other. I was mulling this when I ran across this post…
Humans Are Hackable & Programable, Obviously
Human beings are marvelously complex. They are also highly hackable and programmable. They always have been, though these are relatively new terms. To substantiate my claim, consider the study of psychology has shown us that our upbringing has a tremen…
Repetition Compulsion: How Do I Break A Pattern?
“This may sound like a strange question, but what happens when you recognize your pattern? For me, it was always angry, selfish men…” Lola on the Freedom From Repetition Compulsion. This is from 2007. As a side note, since writing thi…
Transactional Personalities & Relationships
I have very little experience with people with transactional personalities, but I do know a few perfect specimens. To be clear, a transactional personality is someone who never acts (positively or negatively) if there’s nothing to gain. This idea is i…