Hi Elsa, How can a person tell the difference between an actual external conflict and projection/unprocessed shadow work that we’re reacting to? When do we try to solve things externally and when do we look within to what the situation … Read More…
Tag: Relating
Murderous Thoughts, Emotional Crisis, Caustic Comments
Dear Elsa, Bloody murderous thoughts / depressive reminiscences about my partner of 8 years – major emotional crisis, seems to go on forever – can’t reach a ‘happy medium’ for more than a day, fighting or arguing all the time … Read More…
Is It Hard To Partner If You Have No Oppositions In Your Chart?
Hi Elsa, Do people without oppositions in their chart not have committed (marriage) partners? Is it hard for them to partner? I have had no oppositions in my progressed chart for nine years. Suddenly when Saturn got aspected again relationship … Read More…
Mars! How Do You Flirt?
Mars in the natal chart shows how we go after what we want. It shows how we hunt! Let’s say you see a desirable person ‘cross the room. How are you going to engage them? Where is your Mars? No … Read More…
How Does The Ascendant Relate To Attracting A Partner?
Hi Elsa, How much does your natal ascendant tell about who you are attracted to? Mine is Libra and I am never in no way at all attracted to Libra men. On the contrary- I find them manipulative. How exactly does the … Read More…
Have You Compromised In Your Life?
I was told that people made amazing compromises, later in life, to avoid being alone. I was in my thirties at the time. I didn’t really understand. I understand now as I’ve witnessed this myself. I think the current collective mindset is … Read More…
Do People Always Seem To Disappoint You? Why?
mudlikesubstance wrote on Facts Of My Life: “…As for the lesson of assuming that others are like us. That strikes me as a very important lesson here. I make that assumption and it turns around and bites me. I am … Read More…
Synastry: Where Does Your Partner’s Sun Fall In Your Chart?
When evaluating a relationship, pay mind to the house in your chart where your partner’s sun falls. That house will be lit up and energized by your partner’s solar energy. For example, my husband’s Sun falls in my 4th house. … R…
Venus in Libra vs Venus in Scorpio Love
Elsa, From what I’ve read, Venus in Libra is exalted and Venus in Scorpio is in its detriment. Venus in Libra is more occupied with superficiality while Venus in Scorpio is more preoccupied with intensity and the deep end of … Read More…
New Moon In Libra: September 30, 2016 – Hope For Love
The new moon in Libra takes place in the evening on September 30th. As you can see in the graphic, Jupiter is conjunct the Sun and Moon. This is a great fortune. Jupiter will benefit both men (Sun) and women … Read More…