Hi Elsa, I have a coworker who has been so horribly rude and disrespectful to others, very few will work with her. I experienced it myself today. I forgot the first time she did it, thinking maybe it was just a … Read More…
Tag: Relating
My Boyfriend Is Getting A Divorce…And Pulling Away
Hi Elsa, My boyfriend and I are kind of in a slump. He’s going through a divorce right now. We’re living together, but he’s pulling away – either due to depression or just mental chaos over his divorce. I’ve become … Read More…
Mars Conjunct Pluto In Capricorn – DDOS Attack
We’re all aware of Friday’s DDOS attack. There’s a discussion here. This is a great example of Mars conjunct Pluto in Capricorn. Pluto is concerned with the use of other people’s energy or resources. Mars attacks and Capricorn rules business. Businesses … Read More…
What’s Good About Your Bad Childhood?
Sometimes people find and comment on old posts which remain relevant. This post was born of this: I Want To Pick Your Brain. I had more to say about it! A gal left a comment this morning. Ironically, I had … Read More…
How Can I Tell If I Am Projecting My Shadow?
Hi Elsa, How can a person tell the difference between an actual external conflict and projection/unprocessed shadow work that we’re reacting to? When do we try to solve things externally and when do we look within to what the situation … Read More…
Murderous Thoughts, Emotional Crisis, Caustic Comments
Dear Elsa, Bloody murderous thoughts / depressive reminiscences about my partner of 8 years – major emotional crisis, seems to go on forever – can’t reach a ‘happy medium’ for more than a day, fighting or arguing all the time … Read More…
Is It Hard To Partner If You Have No Oppositions In Your Chart?
Hi Elsa, Do people without oppositions in their chart not have committed (marriage) partners? Is it hard for them to partner? I have had no oppositions in my progressed chart for nine years. Suddenly when Saturn got aspected again relationship … Read More…
Mars! How Do You Flirt?
Mars in the natal chart shows how we go after what we want. It shows how we hunt! Let’s say you see a desirable person ‘cross the room. How are you going to engage them? Where is your Mars? No … Read More…
How Does The Ascendant Relate To Attracting A Partner?
Hi Elsa, How much does your natal ascendant tell about who you are attracted to? Mine is Libra and I am never in no way at all attracted to Libra men. On the contrary- I find them manipulative. How exactly does the … Read More…
Have You Compromised In Your Life?
I was told that people made amazing compromises, later in life, to avoid being alone. I was in my thirties at the time. I didn’t really understand. I understand now as I’ve witnessed this myself. I think the current collective mindset is … Read More…