There are a certain number of women…say, twenty percent, who hate other women. They just hate you. There’s nothing you can possibly do to have them like you because they hate you and it’s not because of you, it’s because … Read More…
Tag: Relating
Venus Square Neptune – Settling In A Relationship
This is from a consultation circa 2015. This gas was dating a married man who had lied to her. “…I don’t think it is bad to “settle”. It’s imperative that people who are prone to fantasy (like me and you), … Read More…
Astro-Twins: Can A Couple With The Same Birthdate Last?
Hi, Elsa. I’m experiencing the lack of challenge and growth in my one and one half year long relationship with my boyfriend. We have the same birthdate. Late November. Same year. We are both difficult, stubborn, angry bitches and hard … Read More…
Going Around In Circles In Love
I had a client ask me an interesting question. She wanted to know who pinned who down in my marriage. She’s observed herself and others, going around in what she called a “love circle”. Two people have an attraction, but … Read More…
How To Recover From Being Dumped By Boyfriend
Dear Elsa, About two months ago, my first serious boyfriend of about a year dumped me flat on my ass. Not just broke up with me – dumped me. He left me for someone else while I was away at … Read More…
Can A Person Learn To Be Less Self-Centered?
I have a client who is aware of his self-centeredness. This tendency is shown in his chart. He grew up with tremendous privilege which may have encouraged his proclivity to put himself first. I think he’s trying to overcome this, … Read More…
What Kind Of Person Is Disagreeable To You?
A man I know spent time with two different people. He’s a Pisces. He said that neither were his kind of person. However he’d rather spend time with one over the other. He said this was because while he may not … Read More…
Fantasizing Control Freaks Who Marry You, Then Complain!
Have you ever dated someone who doesn’t really like you? I made these two similar but different videos a few years ago. I’m not surprised I felt compelled to rant about this more than once. They’re super short but informative. If … Read More…
Who Is Manipulating Who?
Manipulation. This a sticky topic. So shadowy, but so interesting. You can apply this to anything (like politics or the media). But when I think about it, I think in terms of one on one relationships. For example, a patient … Read More…
How Do You Respond To Negative Feedback?
This post was prompted by a thread in the forum, Being Intimidating. It’s not meant to attack anyone who weighed in there. I just think this an important and interesting topic. What do you do with the feedback you get … Read More…