XV asked on Do You Ignore Rejection: “What could explain getting attached to someone who keeps rejecting you?” I’m not sure there is one answer. My first thought was that the person my be a glutton for punishment. “GluttonyR…
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Do You Ignore Rejection? Stay Oblivious? See It As A Challenge?
Some people get a clear message that another person is not interested or no longer interested but they just can’t or don’t or won’t parse it even when the message is repeated and consistent over time. I guess you could … Read More…
How To Get Along With People
A client asked me about how and it her chart might provide a timeline of events. What an interesting question. “…The chart provides a timeline but people are complex rather than linear. There a different kinds of timelines. For example, … Read More…
Getting Good Results Via The Hard Aspects In Your Chart
Say you’ve got a problem and let’s say you’ve got the hang of astrology or perhaps you consult an astrologer and they isolate some problem or pathology to a specific aspect in your chart. Now what? I feel that the … Read More…
Does My Ex Regret Leaving Me?
When a person is dumped in a relationship, it’s common they want their ex to suffer. They want them to regret what they’ve done. They hope the pain is excruciating. People feel this is only fair, seeing as they’ve been … Read More…
How Do You Leave A Lover After Betrayal?
What do you do when you are betrayed in a relationship? Do you leave right away or debate it? Do you stay in the relationship, look the other way and ignore it for awhile? Do you confront? Do you set … Read More…
Oppositions In Synastry
Many people feel that oppositions between two charts are problematic. You don’t see things eye to eye (Mercury). Your values oppose (Venus. Your way of going about things (Mars) is very different. Simply speaking, these things are true. But there … Read More…
Passionate But Naive In Relationship
Hi Elsa, I am passionate, and so I love too soon and too deep. I am no saint, but I wear my heart on my sleeve. I just find it hard to believe that there are bad people in the … Read More…
Relationship Triangles, The Femme Fatale & Venus Pluto
Relationship triangles are common when Venus aspect Pluto. There is often a femme fatale involved in some form. She may be in the flesh. She may live in the memory of one of the parties or in someone’s paranoia but … Read More…
Is Everyone A Stranger?
I went to lunch with a friend yesterday. I told her about being all hopped up due to this hack. “I feel energized,” I said. “I like it!” She’s a Leo with a Scorpio moon. She had no clue I … Read More…