Tag: Relating

Venus: Beauty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder!

by Elsa • March 10, 2018

Dina asks on He’s Not Into You: “But, Elsa, what if you’re fat? Or what if you’re unkempt? Primping is so emphasized in our culture, playing the courting game, wearing clothing that flatters and changes you.. “Staying just as you … Read More…

The Loveless, Confusion And Torment

by Elsa • March 9, 2018

I read a poem recently that’s challenged me immensely. The poem is from the 1800’s and I am not going to post it because it’s just too personal and also because it’s just the one line or concept that I … Read More…

Breaking The Silence After Trying To Destroy A Person

by Elsa • March 4, 2018

Let me be clear, I am talking about someone in real life here. This is not an online situation. There’s a gal I know, she’s caused me a lot of pain. I was really happy in a group I belong … Read More…

How Do You Act On A Date?

by Elsa • March 2, 2018

When you meet someone for the first time, do you, yourself show up? Or do you send hologram in there to check things out? (Neptune) Do you show up defensive? Do you interview the person, or wait for them to … Read More…

Vertical Search, Knowledge & The Way People Think

by Elsa • February 28, 2018

Have you heard the term, “vertical search”? If not, you can expect to hear a lot about it over the coming months. These days it seems people can’t agree on what certain words or phrases mean. If you’re interested, here … Read More…

I Want To Destroy My Ex…

by Elsa • February 27, 2018

I understand you want you ex to suffer. But what if this is something you can’t achieve? Are you vindictive? … Read More…

Why Do People Fail To Make Friends Or Find Love?

by Elsa • February 25, 2018

Lilly started a discussion in the forum – Why do women tend to be so catty? I thought it was a great topic. There’s no denying, catty women exist. There’s also no denying that there are great women out there, who … Read More…

“You Can’t Turn Blood On Blood…”

by Elsa • February 20, 2018

Speaking of deal breakers in relationship, my husband always says that you can’t turn blood on blood. To me, old friends are like blood. Roots run deep. It’s always a mistake to bad mouth a person’s family even if the … Read More…

Can Gaslighting Be A Good Thing?

by Elsa • February 16, 2018

I wrote about “gaslighting” in today’s newsletter – Invisible Gas Attack. A reader in the United States asks: “That term Gaslighting, could it be a type of hypnosis? And could there ever be a time, you feel, it could be … Read More…

Giving A Person Space, To Work Out The Kinks

by Elsa • February 14, 2018

Sometimes it’s best if you give a person space (and time) to work out the kinks in their life. A person who is acting wonky may be trying hard to carve out a niche for themselves… Generally speaking, people don’t … Read More…

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