Hi Elsa! You write about ‘frustrated mars’ quite frequently. How bad is a jacked up Venus, compared to that, in a chart? Thanks from India Good question, India. While a poorly aspected Venus can cause a lot of problems, I … Read More…
Hi Elsa: I’ve noticed that in relationships, I tend to be happy to adapt to the other person a lot…. friendship, family, romance, whatever. They adapt too, of course, because every relationship has some level of compromise. But I’m perfectly … Read More…
Dina asks on He’s Not Into You: “But, Elsa, what if you’re fat? Or what if you’re unkempt? Primping is so emphasized in our culture, playing the courting game, wearing clothing that flatters and changes you.. “Staying just as you … Read More…
I read a poem recently that’s challenged me immensely. The poem is from the 1800’s and I am not going to post it because it’s just too personal and also because it’s just the one line or concept that I … Read More…
Let me be clear, I am talking about someone in real life here. This is not an online situation. There’s a gal I know, she’s caused me a lot of pain. I was really happy in a group I belong … Read More…
When you meet someone for the first time, do you, yourself show up? Or do you send hologram in there to check things out? (Neptune) Do you show up defensive? Do you interview the person, or wait for them to … Read More…
Have you heard the term, “vertical search”? If not, you can expect to hear a lot about it over the coming months. These days it seems people can’t agree on what certain words or phrases mean. If you’re interested, here … Read More…
Lilly started a discussion in the forum – Why do women tend to be so catty? I thought it was a great topic. There’s no denying, catty women exist. There’s also no denying that there are great women out there, who … Read More…
Speaking of deal breakers in relationship, my husband always says that you can’t turn blood on blood. To me, old friends are like blood. Roots run deep. It’s always a mistake to bad mouth a person’s family even if the … Read More…