Tag: Relating

The Depth & Complexity Of Each Individual

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We tend to talk about relationships, conceptually. It’s fine, but I feel it falls short next to really analyzing the interaction between two or more individuals. I tell stories for many reasons. One of the reasons I am writing, Shack Man, is that…

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Lack of Regret & Your Love Life

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Years ago, I asked people about regret on this site. People overwhelming said they had no regrets. It was a tagine at the time, but  I was still very surprised. I had many regrets, mostly around my mouth going off. But egads, I definitely had regrets a…

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Shack Man: Various Realities

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Catch up here – Shack Man Chapter Nineteen – Various Realities I heard every word my sister said, but it didn’t add up. Outside of the visit to the memorial, I thought this trip was nothing more than a dog and pony show for Shack’s family. I saw it thi…

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Shack Man – Pisces Threats

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Catch up here – Shack Man Chapter Eighteen – Pisces Threats I’m talking to my sister.  We’re leaving in the morning. “…I doubt it will be that bad,” I say. “I don’t. I hope it not worse. It’s up to him. He better not…

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What You Don’t Like About The Other Person

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I wasn’t born, understanding projection.  I had to learn about it via interacting with other people. I think this is typical.  This is on my mind, because I learned about projection via my relationship with Shack Man. In simple terms, he was a we…

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Shack Man – Love Shack, Baby, Love Shack!

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Catch up here – Shack Man Chapter 9 – Love Shack, Baby, Love Shack! Friday came. By now, I could see, Shack Man was utterly competent. I put myself in his hands, entirely. Rather than a quick dinner and run out there, we took the the long scenic …

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Living Up To The Other Person’s Estimation

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One of the reasons I’m posting stories lately is to recall a time when people interacted in ways that were fun, light, deep, and surprising. I feel this is real life, as opposed to the awful way people treat each other these days. I’m hopin…

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Shack Man -“I Live In A Shack”

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Chapter Three – “I Live In A Shack” Catch up here – Shack Man Shack starts calling me and it just drives me crazy. He literally drives me up a wall. He remains in hot HOT pursuit and I eventually imagine that he may be but it is…

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Venus In Pisces Opposite Virgo Moon In Love

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In 2003,  I taught a beginner astrology class. I just found the transcript.  I think this was the first class I ever taught. I was trying to show people how to grab information from a chart. ~~ Sticking with the theme, but expanding, here’s another cha…

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When Mars Signs Aren’t Compatible

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Hi Elsa, I have a general question about working together as a couple when your Mars signs aren’t compatible. I have a Scorpio Mars. My fiance has a Libra Mars. (He has a Scorpio rising) We have significantly different approaches in dealing with …

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