Tag: psychology

Your Feelings Are Irrelevant To Machines

Most are more than ready to see Saturn and Neptune leave Pisces, and Uranus find its way into Gemini. Pluto is now in Aquarius. These are huge shifts. No one doubts, we are in a tumultuous period of change and transformation. More and more of our commu…

The Nature Of Your Regret & The 80/20 Rule

I spoke with the mother of a young son this morning. He’s about to have Pluto station conjunct his descendant. Meanwhile, she has Saturn transiting her fourth house. It’s also about boundaries and responsible parenting. She was complaining …

Who Is Responsible For Your Behavior?

Is the other person ever responsible for your behavior? I’m thinking, no.  But the only way to find out is to type this out of my head and see what other’s think. I’m thinking about this because it’s occurred to me this may be a…

The Collective Cognitive Dissonance Is Eroding 

“I feel like time is speeding up. What felt stagnant before feels like there’s flow again. Like the ice breaking up on a river.” -Bar In The Sky I was mulling writing on the state of collective cognitive dissonance, this morning. When &#822…

Templates & Treasure Hunts & The Trauma Bond

Today it’s the Los Angeles fires, but every day, it’s something.  We wake up, hit with traumatic news and various narratives about it.  It’s a conspiracy, it’s not a conspiracy, dummy! This person or entity is responsible, no th…

Love, Undermined By Your Therapist

I had a client today, concerned her lover’s therapist might undermine her.  I thought the man she was dating was way too smart to let that happen. He was a Scorpio. This happened to me once. I began dating a man who was in therapy. He was a Scorp…

Morality & Body Language & Finding Love

There’s a lot of effort put into seducing people to behave in ways just not “right”, at a core level for human soul. All day, every day, we’re shown instances of people doing things; designed to normalize negative behavior as we…

Pluto Square Pluto Transit – Positives

When Pluto transits natal Pluto, most every source will tell you, you’re going to have a crisis. In part, this is because the transit is conflated with Uranus opposite natal Uranus and sometimes, Neptune square Neptune as well.  The so-called &#8…