With the recent storytelling, I was thinking about the gal I mentioned in Lazy Days Of Summer. The last time I saw her, we were in our twenties. She had moved to Texas, but came home to visit. I never heard from her again and when the internet came ar…
Tag: 8th-house
Humans Are Hackable & Programable, Obviously
Human beings are marvelously complex. They are also highly hackable and programmable. They always have been, though these are relatively new terms. To substantiate my claim, consider the study of psychology has shown us that our upbringing has a tremen…
Repetition Compulsion: How Do I Break A Pattern?
“This may sound like a strange question, but what happens when you recognize your pattern? For me, it was always angry, selfish men…” Lola on the Freedom From Repetition Compulsion. This is from 2007. As a side note, since writing thi…
How To Access Subconscious Information
“Now and again I get these feelings, a sense that something is up, something is brewing underneath. My question is: what is it, where is it coming from and how do I access the incoming information.” I associate, intuition, precognition, ins…
The 8th House In Synastry
anonymoushermit asked about people who fall in your 8th house and you in theirs. It’s a great question and not that easy to answer. I want to take a stab it it because I have a packed 8th house. I encounter a lot of people due to my job. I can de…
How Does Life Change Post A Brush With Death?
What happens when a person has a brush with death? I have been pondering this question for decades. To be clear, I’m not talking about near-death experiences here as none of the people I will mention experienced any kind of “white lightR…
Being Nice When People Aren’t Nice To You!
I have never claimed to be a nice person! I have plenty of good qualities, but I don’t consider myself to be “nice”, however, I have tried to become (reliably) nice over this last year or so, or at least to do no harm. I’ve ment…
A Grueling Life With Meaning… And Bliss On The Sly
This post is from 2009. It’s relevant to my recent posts. You see, it’s been the way it is, for a very long time. Today my sister said she didn’t know why terrible things have happened to us. Why? I thought this was interesting becaus…
The Psychopath’s Parting Shot
Continuing to mull what I know about psychopathy, first I want to mention, I know or have known a number of them. I’m not necessarily talking about my father when I write this stuff. Psychopaths love to mess with people. This doesn’t necess…
More On Psychological Immunity
I’m fortunate to work with a good number of psychotherapists. In all these years, I’ve never asked any of them why they choose to hire me. I assume they feel I have something unique to offer them. I’m writing this, with these clients …