A phenomenon I see all the time when two people are talking is that one person will be excitedly yammering away while the other person squirms and ages ten years. They desperately want out of that situation, but they don’t … Read More…
Tag: Relating
Does Your Lover Secretly Hate You?
Is your friend or partner constantly criticizing or complaining about you? Chances are they don’t even like you. Hear this: people date and marry people they don’t like all the time. Take two minutes to watch this video and spare yourself &…
Sagittarius & Aging – Calming The Restless Soul
Hi Elsa, You wrote, or maybe created a video on the subject of recognizing “Restlessness” in a natal chart. It got me thinking about that in myself, and my husband. What are some of the placements that would point to … Read More…
Insidious Manipulation – Pluto in the 7th House

Pluto in the 7th house can create some pretty gross behavior. Projection, manipulation, control. But sometimes we do the most damage when we think we’re doing everything right. Consult with Midara … Read More…
Venus Neptune: How To Quit Pining For The Perfect Man (And Dumping The Good Ones)

Are you pining for the perfect man? If you’re a Virgo, or if you have Venus in Pisces or Venus aspected by Neptune, chances are you’ve invested years dreaming of some kind of idealized love. You may pine for an … Read More…
Synastry – The Hidden Power of the Nadir
When beginners start learning synastry, there’s a tendency to jump straight in and focus on Venus and Mars, and maybe even the Descendant. Which makes sense, right? Of course you want to be attracted to your partner. You want to … Read More…
How Deep Should You Go – Analyzing Your Relationship
Three more days to take advantage of this… Last month I introduced a new product – The Midara Relationship Review. Since then, I’ve been working with people from around the world, and the questions have really run the gamut. Should … Read More…
Pluto Direct Transit: Letting Go, Leaving Behind, Endings
“soup” started a thread in the forum, Change is coming! PLUTO DIRECT. It’s interesting. I was going to comment but I realized that rather than being focused on what’s ahead, I’m more aware of what is gone. I’m talking about … Read More…
How To Keep Your Scorpio (8th House) Friend
Some people come from a deep place. I’m like this. This is not to say it’s special or that it’s a preferable way to be. It’s just reality. I have Libra, though. I can get by in social situations. But … Read More…
What Does It Mean If All Your Planets Are In The Eastern Hemisphere?

Recently, I’ve had a run of clients will a major emphasis on the Eastern hemisphere of their natal chart. For newbies, this means that most of the planets fall on the left side of the chart. A person with a … Read More…
