There’s always a lot of interest in contacts between Venus and Pluto in synastry. Is it positive or negative? Can a relationship survive with placements like that? Who has the real power? As someone with Pluto on the Descendant natally, … Read Mo…
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Do You Prefer Superficiality Over Depth?
“A word is not the same with one writer as it is with another. One tears it from his guts. The other pulls it out of his overcoat pocket. … Read More…
Are Behavioral Patterns & Instincts Fixed?
This was written in 2009 and guess what? It’s still true, except for now there’s a forty-year history to offer. Here’s the old post with an update, following: I was talking to my husband about my “people don’t change”…
The Forest and the Trees – Gemini and Sagittarius
The opposition between Gemini and Sagittarius is one of the most misunderstood in the zodiac. The rote explanations always seem to have something to do with both signs being commitment-phobic, but Sagittarius is always running to the next horizon while … Read More…
How Do you Get Out of a Conversation? Ask a Gemini!
A phenomenon I see all the time when two people are talking is that one person will be excitedly yammering away while the other person squirms and ages ten years. They desperately want out of that situation, but they don’t … Read More…
Does Your Lover Secretly Hate You?
Is your friend or partner constantly criticizing or complaining about you? Chances are they don’t even like you. Hear this: people date and marry people they don’t like all the time. Take two minutes to watch this video and spare yourself &…
Sagittarius & Aging – Calming The Restless Soul
Hi Elsa, You wrote, or maybe created a video on the subject of recognizing “Restlessness” in a natal chart. It got me thinking about that in myself, and my husband. What are some of the placements that would point to … Read More…
Insidious Manipulation – Pluto in the 7th House
Pluto in the 7th house can create some pretty gross behavior. Projection, manipulation, control. But sometimes we do the most damage when we think we’re doing everything right. Consult with Midara … Read More…
Venus Neptune: How To Quit Pining For The Perfect Man (And Dumping The Good Ones)
Are you pining for the perfect man? If you’re a Virgo, or if you have Venus in Pisces or Venus aspected by Neptune, chances are you’ve invested years dreaming of some kind of idealized love. You may pine for an … Read More…
Synastry – The Hidden Power of the Nadir
When beginners start learning synastry, there’s a tendency to jump straight in and focus on Venus and Mars, and maybe even the Descendant. Which makes sense, right? Of course you want to be attracted to your partner. You want to … Read More…