I asked people if they felt they had a “fatal flaw”. I claimed I could see these flaws. I’m talking about the kind of person who is never, ever going to have a successful relationship. Well…unless they fix their fatal … Re…
Tag: psychology
Your Personal History Repeating
I had the strangest thing happen, yesterday. I was out in public, chatting with another gal. A man approached us and interrupted our conversation. We turned to him; he put an empty Tupperware container in her hand. I was momentarily … Read More…
Instinct vs Intuition
My intuition is very strong. I’ll often act on intuition alone. My intuition has led me into some awkward situations. I can’t really say they were good or bad, though I can say they are never terrible. Because I’m being guided by … Read More…
Can A Person Learn To Be Less Self-Centered?
I have a client who is aware of his self-centeredness. This tendency is shown in his chart. He grew up with tremendous privilege which may have encouraged his proclivity to put himself first. I think he’s trying to overcome this, … Read More…
Pluto, psychology, transformation and the devil
You’ll be reading a lot about Pluto in these pages in the next months because I’m just entering a cycle of Pluto to an important system in my chart (geeky astrological details: to my Sun/Saturn/Neptune conjunction which squares Uranus). Pluto was discovered in 1930 and is associated with psychology and the understanding of our hidden motivations […]
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Who Is Manipulating Who?
Manipulation. This a sticky topic. So shadowy, but so interesting. You can apply this to anything (like politics or the media). But when I think about it, I think in terms of one on one relationships. For example, a patient … Read More…
Cutting Your Losses Is A Learned Skill
Mars is the planet the rules all cutting. The concept of cutting your losses is a learned skill rather than something you can reliably leave to human nature. I learned to cut my losses by playing cards as a kid. There … Read More…
Who Winds Up Loved Or Lonely?
I posted this, ten years ago in 2007. It’s on my mind today, because I see legions of people out there who I don’t think will ever partner successfully. I’m not stating that in a critical way. I’m looking at … Read More…
How Can I Tell If I Am Projecting My Shadow?
Hi Elsa, How can a person tell the difference between an actual external conflict and projection/unprocessed shadow work that we’re reacting to? When do we try to solve things externally and when do we look within to what the situation … Read More…
Do People Always Seem To Disappoint You? Why?
mudlikesubstance wrote on Facts Of My Life: “…As for the lesson of assuming that others are like us. That strikes me as a very important lesson here. I make that assumption and it turns around and bites me. I am … Read More…