Tag: Relating

Want a Happy Relationship? Remove Pressure!

One pattern I see constellate over and over in consultations has to do with pressure. Invariably, one person will want something from the other, whether it be more sex, affection, conversation, whatever. And in order to get that, they push. … Rea…

Pluto In Capricorn: Control Your Pathology!

I was talking to a gal about a pattern in her relationships. She had good understanding of the dynamic: “He does this, then I do that and then he does this and then this happens…” She concluded that nothing could … Read More…

Clarifying Toxic Relationships

My recent post, Saturn in Aquarius and Toxic Relationships, got a lot of discussion going. This is great! But it became clear that I need to clarify my position. I am not in favor of holding on to terrible relationships! … Read More…

Mercury and Jupiter in Synastry

One odd couple in synastry is Mercury and Jupiter. Their home signs naturally oppose each other, and yet they absolutely rely on each other to get to the truth. So what happens when the two meet? Imagine building a sand … Read More…