We often talk about people bringing out the best or the worst in us, but have you ever wondered why that happens? Synastry, which is the interaction of two charts, often has the answer. One of the interesting things about … Read More…
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Living With Someone With Mars in The 4th House
When I see Mars in the 4th house of a natal chart, I think of family fights and fire in the belly. It’s not the greatest place for Mars because the home and family are supposed to be a place … Read More…
Hook-up Culture – Sex vs Commitment
Sex is easy to find these days. Commitment is almost impossible to find. My kids are bucking this trend. I’m glad because I think it’s a best path to a happy life. Basically, you invest in someone and they in … Read More…
Are Women More Vicious Than Men?
My husband is a man’s man. He’s an alpha male who has spent his entire life working in male dominated professions like the military, machining and trucking. He’s got a lot of insight into the male psyche. He once told … Read Mo…
Weird Encounters With Uranus In 7th House
I have Uranus in the 7th house. I tend to meet eccentric people who are often highly intelligent. Being aware of this via astrology, I know how to deal with them. That’s my spine. One of these weirdos fixed that … Read More…
What If It’s Your Responsibility?
With all this action in Capricorn, I’m running into certain themes in my life as well as the lives of friends, family or clients. Sometimes, it’s your responsibility to do something. Today’s newsletter as related. People no longer fe…
Are Your Snap Judgments Of Others Reliable?
Snap Judgment – a judgment formed on the instant without deliberation. (free dictionary) I try get a hack on people right away and hope they do the same when they’re dealing with me. This is necessary when working as an … Read More……
Am I Going To End Up Alone?
Today, I’m going to talk to a gal I have known for nearly twenty years. Yes! She’s been around this blog, and it’s predecessor, since nearly day one. She has a new man. Thinking about talking to her, I feel … Read More…
Want a Happy Relationship? Remove Pressure!
One pattern I see constellate over and over in consultations has to do with pressure. Invariably, one person will want something from the other, whether it be more sex, affection, conversation, whatever. And in order to get that, they push. … Rea…
Pluto In Capricorn: Control Your Pathology!
I was talking to a gal about a pattern in her relationships. She had good understanding of the dynamic: “He does this, then I do that and then he does this and then this happens…” She concluded that nothing could … Read More…