You meet someone new; you’re falling in love! But the synastry is rough and the composite chart is a train wreck. Now what? How willing are you to sort out the rough stuff? … Read More…
Tag: Relating
What If Someone Is Only Nice To You?
In my last post, Who Do You Trust?, Lakshmi made a comment that really got me thinking. In talking about faults she finds in potential friends, she mentions, “Example: a woman who seems friendly and interesting starts badmouthing another “friend” ̷…
How To Get Along With Others, Simplified
“If you get along with someone most of the time and something comes up, you have two choices. You can deal with it or you can be stubborn and refuse to deal with it. People who succeed in relationships take … Read More…
Men And Women And The Chip On Your Shoulder
I was talking to a client today who used to be down on men. She judged them harshly as a matter of routine which is easy enough to do. A bitter woman can find all kinds of company. This woman … Read More…
Pluto Aspects In Synastry
“If you see me coming better step aside; a lot of men didn’t and a lot of men died.” –Sixteen Tons, … Read More…
Understanding How People Perceive Or Receive You
Yesterday, a client asked if I thought he was an alpha male. I told him I would take it further than that, “I’d say you were a predatory male.” This was not because he was doing anything bad to women … Read More…
Moon Square Moon In Synastry – Doomed?
The moon in your natal chart shows your emotional nature. If your moon squares your partner’s moon, your feelings about things can clash. Moon square moon may not show itself that dramatically until and unless the couple decides to live … R…
My Chart Is Easy – His Is Hard
Do you have a chart full of trines? I do, for the most part. In contrast, my husband’s chart is jarring. It’s dominated by a T-square involving Mars and Saturn for one thing. When we got together he warned me … Read More…
Do You Have to Love Yourself Before You Love Others?
Since I’ve been on a kick of debunking common self-care myths, let me tackle the biggest one of all: that you have to fully love yourself before you can love and be loved by others. Like most of these ideas, … Read More…
On Being A Picky Snob
My husband and I were talking about a person we know. There are very few people he loves or likes or cares to be around. Consequently he’s lonely. He doesn’t like this either. I am like this myself to an … Read More…