Hi Elsa, I’ve recently been looking back at my life so far. I came to realise that one of the many patterns of how I engage, broadly, is that I’m un-sticky, if that makes sense. Now at least in relationships, … Read More…
Tag: Relating
Bucking The Trend By Marrying & Having A Family
I want to carry on about people who are single and contemplating their fear and the difficulty of partnering. See Where Are All The Men? This is definitely a real thing and here is blatant proof of it. I don’t … Read More…
Where Are All The Men?
JR left a comment on Top Cheat Code For 2024 & Beyond. She sounds like a stable, competent, responsible young woman, who’s at a standstill when it comes to partnering. I asked permission to address some of her concerns, because I … Rea…
More On Power Struggles In Relationships
lunairy wrote on The Cold War In Your Marriage Or Relationship: “This post definitely subtly hints of libra mars talking…. [it seems so obvious & common sense to us!!] …. i have learned it is not the case for others…” …
The Cold War In Your Marriage Or Relationship
My husband and I met as teenagers during the cold war. He worked in a missile at the time so I was particularly aware of the tension in the world. I spot trends by my nature and I’ve been an … Read More…
Yesterday’s Miracle: Changing Your Well Established Norm
People are creatures of habit. You hear the phrase, “I would never” as often as you hear, “I always”. You probably say these things as well. Generally, people are honest when they make these statements. An established norm can…
Your Lizard Brain: What Can You Not Help But Respond To?
This is an old post from 2009, but it’s just so deeply true. Pulling it up to go way beneath the superficial… I was driving across Nebraska to see my husband, thinking about that gal, Kate, looking for the beta … Read More…
How To You Handle Betrayal?
Let’s say you’re betrayed in some way. My husband and I deal with this, differently. I will flat out tell a person, look. I don’t trust you anymore. I will say those words. I will also say, “I don’t want to … Read M…
Neptune Mind Tricks & Blurred Reality
It’s been a long time since I wrote about my hologram, but Mercury is and will be highly emphasized over these next few months. Things come to mind and some of them seem worth sharing. I’ve used the phrase, “mistake … Read More…
Why The Little (Normal) People Should Stick Together
Most realize there is a lot of effort to divide people at this time. By age, sex, gender, religion, wealth, etc. The powers that be have been extremally successful. It’s worth looking at why this is. While you hate your … Read More…