“I have good boundaries in relationship but besides that, I enjoy the alchemical process that can only occur in a vacuum. I tend to run with similar types. People who want to be in a closed container to some extent.” I wrote this in a post …
Tag: Real Life
How Can Elders Deal With The Current Times?
How to navigate this next decade, as an elder? How can the current crop of elders (we baby boomers, including me!) make the BEST USE of the times ahead in America. I think our culture is changing so rapidly, some days I want to hide at home (Cancerian…
Children With Natal Oppositions Have Parents Who Disagree!
Yesterday, I worked with a gal who has a son with a strong Aries/Libra opposition in his 1st/7th houses. My son has a similar opposition. We discussed this and then this morning someone commented on this post from 2009. Made me think I should pull th…
Why Do I Always Struggle In Relationships?
Hi, Elsa. How do you deal with a chart that just says “ouch” in regard to relationships? I’ve always struggled with maintaining friendships and beyond that, I tend to become a target for scapegoating and gossip, especially in work sit…
If You Could Elect Your Baby’s Natal Chart, Would You?
“Planned cesarian sections are becoming more common. What are your views about selecting the day and time for this type of birth by looking for good aspects and placements and avoiding tough ones?” Gal from South Africa My sister and I got …
Current Conditions Are Turning Us All Into Hungry Ghosts
We’re inundated with ideas, opinions and sales pitches, ’round the clock. It’s very hard to find an authentic person. There are real people here and also in the forum, but their number is dwindling as search nudges everyone towards t…
Libra Eclipse Challenge – Overcome Narcissistic Tendencies
Mars will square sun, moon and Mercury in Libra next week. This energy will peak on Wednesday. Libra rules relationships. Mars agitates. I expect people to clash, and in fact, I’m already seeing this in consultations. I have Mars and Mercury in…
Is Beating Addiction Is The Key To Health?
I read that cigarette people, who went out of their way to make their product addictive, then bought into food manufacturers and used the same playbook. They made the food as addictive as possible. I started blogging on Xanga, in 2001. They came up w…
How To Regain Your Power After Being Assaulted
I don’t bother counting how many assaults I’ve suffered. I can say this – I have a lot of experience with it. And if you want your power back, I can tell you a neat trick ’round how this can be done. It’s simple, but elud…
Upside Of Aging: You See The Tricks!
One thing I enjoy about aging, is it’s easy to see and understand a lot of things that would have eluded me when I was younger. This is primarily because I was seeing the thing happen for the first time. When you’re older, you can identify…