The cosmic picture has shifted considerably, thanks to the Sun’s arrival in Aquarius (happy birthday!) and Jupiter’s entry into Aries. It’s a new beginning y’all.
Aries and Libra, you’d have to be hiding in a pickle jar not to notice a change of sorts. A new sense of identity is evolving, and this plays a role in how you relate to the most important people in your life, lovers included.
It would be so easy to wade into the deep end of narcissism, because Jupiter amplifies the Aries archetype, which relates to me, myself and I. Enter Saturn to keep us all from becoming self-obsessed. Saturn moves into a five-month retrograde phase, signaling a time to be aware of your boundaries. How much space do you require? Not just physical space (although that may be part of your consideration, especially for Cancer and Capricorn). Think in terms of ‘air time.’ While your opinion counts, so does everyone else’s (even if you happen to disagree).
Aries and Libra, Jupiter and Saturn retrograde are doing their best to help you discern the difference between self-awareness and self-aggrandizement. This isn’t to suggest that everyone else has got this delicate balance worked out. Actually, we’re relying on Aries and Libra to model behavior that reflects a keen understanding of the divine connection between ‘me’ and ‘thee.’
Doesn’t mater what sign you are, or what your love life situation is: the sacred spark gets ignited when you recognize yourself in the Other, and vice versa.