Okay, you’ve been through the ringer over the past couple of months or more. Breathe now. Even though we’re gearing up for a Full Moon on Friday, this one’s more gentle than any lunation we’ve had in recent memory. What you may find heartening is that it will reveal, finally, where you’ve landed after being adrift for weeks on end. For better or worse, this is where you’re at. Best to see the reality of your situation than to play ostrich and pretend it’s not happening.
That’s not to say that you don’t have options if you’re not too impressed with your current situation. The great news is that you have options a-plenty. But it will help you to know exactly what you want, so that too many choices don’t distract you from your most important goal. If it’s a quick dalliance you want, go for it. But be fair and let the other person know that you’re here for a good time, not a long time.
On the other hand, if you’re in this for the long haul, do your best not to take things too personally right now, if you’re experiencing tension with the one you adore. Chances are, even if you’ve managed to surf the recent eclipses with nothing but joy, many people are still reeling from one change after another. If you’re able, cut your sweetheart some slack and model the behavior you hope they’ll choose. It’s one way to love big without smothering or judging.