I was able to stop my mind from running, at two in the morning, the other night. At the very least it’s a minor miracle. I was obsessing over a passive aggressive man in a position to thwart me, right now. He’s thriving while I’m…
Author: Elsa
Are You A Scorpio? (Comedy)
I wish it were possible to post this story about meeting, Ben. I can’t, because of the candid language of the era, but I have an excerpt (that has some candid language). Back story: The food and beverage manager of the Commodore Hotel was a gay m…
Pluto Transit Conjunct Natal Mars: Encountering Darkness
Hi Elsa, Just wondering if you know much or have experienced transit Pluto conjunct natal Mars. I have this now and wonder if I should be worried? Ruth from Canberra Australia. Hi, Ruth! I’m really glad you asked this question. I’ve had th…
How do you stay prosocial during war and times of crisis?
“A lot of Americans aren’t used to crisis, lack of water or food or war on their soil. How do we not fold into ourselves, but stay prosocial and aid our fellow citizens during war, crisis or revolutionary times? (For instance, there was som…
Making Real Friends In The Post Covid Era
“How do you form deep friendships in your later years? You don’t have time on your side, and it can be difficult to meet people. Let me know when you find the answer, Elsa.” – Margaret on Losing Friends & Lack Of Trust I said I…
What Planet Dictates The Beauty Standard?
Belen writes: “Super shallow topic, but I just read an article on how millennials in their 30/40s look younger than the next generation (because of fillers, heavy makeup etc). So – I hear Venus rules personal beauty but what about beauty standard…
Problems on the site?
Two people on the Ask Questions thread said the contact form malfunctioned. I need to fix this, right away. I tried to use the form, myself and it went right through. I’m at a loss as to what’s wrong. If someone could offer further informat…
Risking Persecution To Find True Connection In The Modern World
There are people I feel I could never be honest with. I’m not talking about clients. I’m talking to people, in life, to whom I could never, ever, say what I think. I would never try to clear the air; never try to explain something; never co…
Adapting To The Gig Economy
I credit the Jupiter Uranus conjunction with expanding my confidence as well as my worldview, to the point where I could go on Fiverr and communicate my needs technical people on the other side of the world. I set up three jobs with two sellers. The re…
Losing Friends & Lack Of Trust
I value communication more than most. With a packed 8th house, I’ve always had an inner circle. These are people I can talk to about anything. Literally, anything. The planets have aligned in such a way; my entire inner circle is ill, if not grav…