Author: Elsa

Mars! How Do You Flirt?

Mars in the natal chart shows how we go after what we want. It shows how we hunt! Let’s say you see a desirable person ‘cross the room. How are you going to engage them? Where is your Mars? No … Read More…

Have You Compromised In Your Life?

I was told that people made amazing compromises, later in life, to avoid being alone. I was in my thirties at the time. I didn’t really understand.  I understand now as I’ve witnessed this myself. I think the current collective mindset is … Read More…

What Makes You Uncomfortable?

My friend, Ben came up with the term, un-comfort”, twenty years ago. (see tag) He said I put people in their “un-comfort” zone. They either liked me or they didn’t, based on how comfortable they were, being uncomfortable. It was a revelation … Read More…

Light At The End Of My Tunnel

I get my surgical staples out today. They look gnarly to a person like me. I’d rather see my wound closed with nice skin tape with a doily pattern on it. This is like, Frankenstein.  But I never felt pain from … Read More…

Do People Always Seem To Disappoint You? Why?

mudlikesubstance wrote on Facts Of My Life: “…As for the lesson of assuming that others are like us. That strikes me as a very important lesson here. I make that assumption and it turns around and bites me. I am … Read More…