
Venus In The Natal Chart Shows How You Love



Venus enters Pisces on February 10th (6:19 PM EST). Relationships, money, self-esteem and values become fluid. Easy come, easy go – Pisces has zero boundaries.
Pisces is an expansive influence. Under the right conditions, that means more of the good stuff- more love (with an unconditional flavour), more giving, more acceptance. Sometimes, the more you give, the more you receive (without expectations of receiving anything). Such is the beauty of Pisces.
But the bad stuff can also expand – more victimization, more addiction, more giving that weakens you. Where’s the line between selfless love/charity versus being a doormat and allowing others to drain you?
Since Pisces is all about grey areas, the line may seem difficult to identity. But it’s really not. You just need to check in with yourself.
Do you feel good when you’re giving? Do you feel calm yet energized? You’re on the right side of the line, whether you’re offering love, money or compassion. You’re offering something of value with no expectation of recompense, and it feels right.
Do you feel drained, devalued or used when you’re giving? Do you come away from the interaction feeling like a victim? You’re on the wrong side of the line. If it feels wrong, it is wrong. End of story.
Venus in Pisces can attract with the victim vibe (others are drawn to weakness and try to take advantage) or with the transcendent vibe (you’ve released bitterness, anger and expectation, and you’re completely open to whatever comes your way – as long as it’s good for you). Sometimes, nothing comes your way. Pisces can be about isolation and learning to let go. Ultimately, it is a transpersonal energy, which means the illusion that a certain person or thing belongs to you is just that – an illusion. Everything can be given to you or taken away, just like that.
I’m not going to go on about how beautiful this is. When you’re lonely or in mourning, it’s not beautiful. These things can make you feel empty and sad. You can love what you lost, but you don’t have to love the experience of loss. You don’t have to do or be anything – Pisces, more than any other sign, asks nothing except that you allow what’s flowing into and out of your life. Just go with it, and feel all the accompanying emotions.
This transit kicks off a concentrated Pisces season. Mercury and the Sun enter this sign on February 17th and 18th respectively. On March 4th (the peak) there will be a Sun/Neptune conjunction, along with a triple conjunction of Mercury, Venus and Chiron.
Here are the aspects Venus in Pisces will make:
Notable aspects:
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