{"id":91512,"date":"2011-02-28T00:21:00","date_gmt":"2011-02-28T00:21:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/astrologyblogger.com\/?guid=bf3062172a8ce7d5d395711f4becb103"},"modified":"2011-02-28T00:31:32","modified_gmt":"2011-02-28T00:31:32","slug":"happiness-project-12-pisces-new-moon-be-in-the-moment-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/astrologyblogger.com\/?p=91512","title":{"rendered":"Happiness Project (12) Pisces New Moon: Be In The Moment"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-EPkMOYhg0r4\/TWrZIQD8PnI\/AAAAAAAABAw\/dluZgidMOLE\/s1600\/3749591471_8782f07f12.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/ywAAAAAAQABAAACAUwAOw==\" fifu-lazy=\"1\" fifu-data-sizes=\"auto\" fifu-data-srcset=\"https:\/\/i3.wp.com\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-EPkMOYhg0r4\/TWrZIQD8PnI\/AAAAAAAABAw\/dluZgidMOLE\/s320\/3749591471_8782f07f12.jpg?ssl=1&w=75&resize=75&ssl=1 75w, https:\/\/i3.wp.com\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-EPkMOYhg0r4\/TWrZIQD8PnI\/AAAAAAAABAw\/dluZgidMOLE\/s320\/3749591471_8782f07f12.jpg?ssl=1&w=100&resize=100&ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i3.wp.com\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-EPkMOYhg0r4\/TWrZIQD8PnI\/AAAAAAAABAw\/dluZgidMOLE\/s320\/3749591471_8782f07f12.jpg?ssl=1&w=150&resize=150&ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i3.wp.com\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-EPkMOYhg0r4\/TWrZIQD8PnI\/AAAAAAAABAw\/dluZgidMOLE\/s320\/3749591471_8782f07f12.jpg?ssl=1&w=240&resize=240&ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i3.wp.com\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-EPkMOYhg0r4\/TWrZIQD8PnI\/AAAAAAAABAw\/dluZgidMOLE\/s320\/3749591471_8782f07f12.jpg?ssl=1&w=320&resize=320&ssl=1 320w, https:\/\/i3.wp.com\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-EPkMOYhg0r4\/TWrZIQD8PnI\/AAAAAAAABAw\/dluZgidMOLE\/s320\/3749591471_8782f07f12.jpg?ssl=1&w=500&resize=500&ssl=1 500w, https:\/\/i3.wp.com\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-EPkMOYhg0r4\/TWrZIQD8PnI\/AAAAAAAABAw\/dluZgidMOLE\/s320\/3749591471_8782f07f12.jpg?ssl=1&w=640&resize=640&ssl=1 640w, https:\/\/i3.wp.com\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-EPkMOYhg0r4\/TWrZIQD8PnI\/AAAAAAAABAw\/dluZgidMOLE\/s320\/3749591471_8782f07f12.jpg?ssl=1&w=800&resize=800&ssl=1 800w, https:\/\/i3.wp.com\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-EPkMOYhg0r4\/TWrZIQD8PnI\/AAAAAAAABAw\/dluZgidMOLE\/s320\/3749591471_8782f07f12.jpg?ssl=1&w=1024&resize=1024&ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i3.wp.com\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-EPkMOYhg0r4\/TWrZIQD8PnI\/AAAAAAAABAw\/dluZgidMOLE\/s320\/3749591471_8782f07f12.jpg?ssl=1&w=1280&resize=1280&ssl=1 1280w, https:\/\/i3.wp.com\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-EPkMOYhg0r4\/TWrZIQD8PnI\/AAAAAAAABAw\/dluZgidMOLE\/s320\/3749591471_8782f07f12.jpg?ssl=1&w=1600&resize=1600&ssl=1 1600w\" border=\"0\" height=\"213\" fifu-data-src=\"https:\/\/i3.wp.com\/lh4.googleusercontent.com\/-EPkMOYhg0r4\/TWrZIQD8PnI\/AAAAAAAABAw\/dluZgidMOLE\/s320\/3749591471_8782f07f12.jpg?ssl=1\" width=\"320\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 85%; font-style: italic;\">Every month, I&#8217;m adding new intentions\/activities for my <a href=\"http:\/\/holisticastrologer.blogspot.com\/2010\/04\/happiness-project-astrologers-version.html\">happiness project<\/a> during the new moon.  Feel free to play along &amp; set your own new monthly goals!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>New Moon in Pisces Occurs on March 4th, 3:46PM EST<\/b> <\/p>\n<p>During the few days surrounding the Pisces New Moon, you may experience heightened emotional sensitivity in general, as well as an increased need to be alone.&nbsp; Let&#8217;s see why this might be a good thing.<\/p>\n<p><b>Pisces and Emotional Intelligence <\/b><\/p>\n<p>As a result of social conditioning, our ego (represented by Saturn) places a lot of value on &#8220;having it all together.&#8221;&nbsp; This leads us to develop discipline and self-control, which are good and necessary qualities.&nbsp; However, when self-control is cultivated to excess, our psyche goes out of balance: we tend to lose touch with the &#8220;right-brain&#8221; part of us that is more intuitive and free flowing.<\/p>\n<p>When ego&#8217;s tendency to control and discipline goes overboard, we also begin to lose compassion toward &#8220;weaker&#8221; people that may have less discipline compared to us.&nbsp; At work and in relationships, this may manifest as an overly controlling and judgmental behavior toward others.&nbsp; Worse still, as the ego&#8217;s lust to control goes unchecked, we gradually begin to lose touch with our feelings altogether.<\/p>\n<p>Each of the 4 mutable signs has to do with a development of a particular kind of intelligence: Gemini the cerebral kind; Virgo the hands-on, detail oriented kind; Sagittarius the intuitive, philosophical kind.&nbsp; Pisces has to do with the development of what&#8217;s known as the <b>emotional intelligence<\/b>.&nbsp; This is the unstructured and free flowing &#8220;right brain&#8221; part of us that can access the feelings within our bodies, as well as instinctive signals from our unconscious that we call &#8220;hunches&#8221; or &#8220;gut-feelings.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><b>Being in the Moment: Letting Go of the Excessive Need to Control<\/b><\/p>\n<p>During this month it may be a good idea to pay more attention to what your body and feelings are trying to tell you.&nbsp; In order to do this, it&#8217;s necessary that we learn to <b>be in the moment<\/b> rather than anywhere else, such as worrying about the future or brooding about past events.&nbsp; You may be wondering &#8220;How do I do that?&#8221;&nbsp; Here are some ways in which you can practice being in the moment:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Practice spontaneous creative activities that forces you to <i>feel<\/i> rather than <i>think<\/i>.&nbsp; Dancing, playing improvised music, writing poetry or just a stream of consciousness journaling that starts with &#8220;I feel~.&#8221;&nbsp; Whatever you do, don&#8217;t overthink the process &#8211; you&#8217;re trying to access a different part of your brain separated from your conscious mind.<\/li>\n<li> <b>Stop trying to figure everything out<\/b>.&nbsp; That&#8217;s our ego trying to control the results.&nbsp; Even though it&#8217;s a necessary quality to have, excessive reasoning tends to create worry and not much else.<\/li>\n<li>Use your 5 senses: How does the air feel?&nbsp; The lighting?&nbsp; What do you smell in the air?&nbsp; What do you hear?&nbsp; When you&#8217;re fully immersed in your senses, you&#8217;re in the moment.&nbsp; Usually we only stay in the moment for a few seconds at a time before we start analyzing, judging, weighing and figuring things out.&nbsp; Practice having longer moments where you&#8217;re fully present.<\/li>\n<li>Meditate.&nbsp; Turn off TV\/internet for a while.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Summary: Messages From The Unconscious<\/b><\/p>\n<p>During this month, it&#8217;s good to take time to be alone.&nbsp;&nbsp; By choosing to be with yourself, you&#8217;re giving your psyche a chance to regain the necessary balance between the rational and the emotional self.&nbsp; You may also begin to recognize the existence of emotional wounds that may be in need of healing at this time.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s important not to try to fight the emotions that come up during your solitude, since they&#8217;re most likely messages from your unconscious, saying that it&#8217;s time for you to heal and move on to the next level.<\/p>\n<p>Related post: <a href=\"http:\/\/holisticastrologer.blogspot.com\/2008\/01\/gemini-virgo-and-domination-of.html\">Gemini &#8211; Virgo Syndrome: Therapeutic Balancing of Hyperactive Mercury<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: x-small;\">(photo by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/juanflauta\/\">Juan Rubiano<\/a>)<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Every month, I&#8217;m adding new intentions\/activities for my happiness project during the new moon.  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