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<\/p>\nCredit: level17<\/a> via iStockphoto<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n If you\u2019ve got a thing for Venus in Aquarius<\/a>, you might want to get in line. This is one of the most fascinating people you will ever encounter. She\u2019s a real mix of all things classic and modern. She is also simultaneously group-oriented and isolationist. This only adds to her mystique. No wonder it\u2019s easy to misread her signals. <\/p>\n He\u2019s not trying to be mysterious with you, understand. It\u2019s just that Venus in Aquarius reports to two planetary rulers–both Saturn and Uranus–and these two giants have very different vibes.<\/b> While Saturn upholds tradition, Uranus breaks the mold and finds a twist on that tradition. Picture a gray suit with a flash of purple socks peeking out. Venus in Aquarius has a foot in two camps. <\/p>\n Adding to this complexity is the fact that Venus in Aquarius behaves pretty much the same way with everybody.<\/b> She\u2019s a humanitarian, after all. In true Uranian fashion, she believes that everyone under the Sun has their own magic to contribute to the world, so she greets everyone–from the person behind the convenience store counter to the VP of a major bank–in the same relaxed manner, and treats everyone with the same respect. <\/p>\n If Venus in Aquarius has favorite people, he\u2019s considerate enough to avoid making it obvious to those outside of his inner circle. How then, are you supposed to know if he\u2019s into you? Here are some telltale signs that this democratic dude is partial to what you\u2019ve got:<\/p>\n It starts with friendship. Nobody gets past go<\/em> until Venus in Aquarius is sure there\u2019s enough common ground between you to enjoy hanging out.<\/b> Do not underestimate the emphasis that she places on friendship. <\/p>\n First of all, the whole Aquarian vibe resonates naturally with the 11th House of friendship and group energy. Secondly, what\u2019s the big rush? That same 11th House also furnishes our hopes and wishes. Venus in Aquarius has a visionary outlook that sees the bigger picture–that\u2019s Uranus\u2019 influence. Moreover, she trusts that the bigger picture will develop in its own sweet and proper time–which is Saturn\u2019s domain. She\u2019s got your whole twosome future in her mind\u2019s eye. Provided you give her a hint that you\u2019re into her, she sees your eventual transition into lovers as a fait accompli. <\/p>\n But she\u2019ll keep that tucked away and simply move one step at a time, patiently allowing for good things to ripen. Venus in Aquarius relishes the journey of your developing relationship in all of its stages.<\/b> Think of architect Saturn helping her build some relationship scaffolding. She\u2019s not afraid to climb out on a ledge, but that ledge needs to be stable enough to support some of the wild Uranian things she\u2019s game to try with you eventually. <\/p>\n If she\u2019s into you, her preliminary fantasies are about getting to know you better in a platonic way. Super dry? Not if you understand what\u2019s motivating her: she adores that hint of Uranian taboo that Saturn\u2019s obstacles present–such as, we\u2019re just meant to be colleagues<\/em> (or friends or classmates or strangers or\u2026) but I\u2019m hot and bothered for you, and this isn\u2019t the time or place to let on<\/em>. It may or may not be \u2018appropriate.\u2019 One of you may or may not be spoken for. Oops. So she imagines everyday mundane scenarios whereby the two of you connect. <\/p>\n These daydreams are her safe way to practice how she\u2019s finally going to ask you to meet up with her, without embarrassing herself (remember dignified Saturn) or flipping you out. She\u2019s learned the hard way that something about her is \u2018different,\u2019 and that not everyone can handle her. So, a la Saturn, she starts off with a cautious approach:<\/p>\n Hey, do you wanna grab a coffee and try and figure out how we\u2019re going to tackle this latest assignment?<\/em> If that\u2019s all she gives you at first, that\u2019s already a lot. Before she sticks her neck out any further, she wants a neutral environment to assess whether the chemistry she feels is in her mind or if it\u2019s mutual. <\/p>\n If she\u2019s into you, Venus in Aquarius hopes for your friendship to blossom into romance. For her, anticipation is part of the thrill of romance.<\/b> As far as she\u2019s concerned, if you\u2019re as into her as she is into you, your love story will have begun long before either of you approached the other. <\/p>\n Venus in Aquarius is not above disguising amorous feelings under a brilliant and iconic sense of humor.<\/b> This is the influence of Uranus. He will deliver a genius comeback without missing a beat, whenever the opportunity presents itself. So you could be excused for dismissing his quirky quips as no more than a great sense of comedic timing. Don\u2019t. He\u2019s using this as another safe way to signal that he\u2019s vying for your attention. <\/p>\n Picture this: you\u2019re walking together towards that caf\u00e9 where you\u2019re meeting to discuss \u201cwork\u201d (at least, that\u2019s his story). It is raining en route. He removes a leaf from a tree and holds it above your head as an umbrella. He\u2019s flirting with you. Yes, really. This is Venus in Aquarius at his freest and finest. If you can avoid a comeback like, \u201cWeirdo,\u201d it will help move things along quite nicely–all the more so if you offer to hold the umbrella. <\/p>\n Related<\/b>:<\/p>\n Venus in Aquarius appears to be in no rush to get you into bed. Is this guy ever going to make a move on you? Maybe he already has, and you just haven’t caught on to his unique style of flirting.<\/p>\nFeeling Friendly<\/h2>\n
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