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<\/p>\nCredit: DeanDrobot<\/a> via iStockphoto<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n If you\u2019re obsessing over someone with Venus in Scorpio, you\u2019ve got good reason. This magnetic creature of the zodiac has an irresistible intensity that can drive a person to great distraction. But figuring out whether or not Venus in Scorpio is obsessing over you too is a real mystery. This one keeps it all very close to the chest–even the stuff you\u2019d think is no big deal to share openly. Here\u2019s how to peer into Venus in Scorpio\u2019s heart and find out if you\u2019re even making a dent:<\/p>\n But first: Are you good at waiting? Think you can out-wait Venus in Scorpio? Do you like a good game of chicken? These not-so-rhetorical questions are actually clues that your Venus in Scorpio crush isn\u2019t going to help you out too much by making the first move. Now sure, there\u2019s the general assertion that \u201cif he doesn\u2019t move in on you then he\u2019s just not that into you.\u201d Yes, but\u2026then there\u2019s Venus in Scorpio. I don\u2019t want to hold out false hope here, but the Scorpio lover is so contained about affairs of the heart that you might need to give it a little–make that a lot of–time before giving up on him or her. <\/p>\n And it\u2019s not just time or patience you\u2019ll need; whether you\u2019re a demure romantic or a confident gutsy go-girl, you<\/em> need to make the first play. Make it bold. Venus in Scorpio doesn\u2019t have a vast amount of self-esteem to believe that your subtle moves are a play for him. Underneath the surface calm of your Venus in Scorpio crush is a heart that beats with a formidable amount of insecurity or fear. No wonder, for love goddess Venus is a bit out of her element in the deep and psychologically turbulent waters of Scorpio\u2019s realm. So help a guy out and get the ball rolling before the two of you forget what you\u2019re pining for in the first place.<\/p>\n What kind of moves will land on Venus in Scorpio? Try an invitation to dinner. Don\u2019t confuse her by making it a group affair. She\u2019s going to privately torture herself over whether it\u2019s a date or a dinner party. Make it a one-on-one thing. Here\u2019s the deal: if she bites, so to speak, she\u2019s into you. Or you text her something flirtatious and funny, and she feels comfortable enough to risk texting back in the same vein. The point being: it\u2019s on you to initiate contact.<\/b> <\/p>\n Simple, right? How we wish–for who hasn\u2019t fallen under the spell of Venus in Scorpio? Let\u2019s say she said yes to your first move. That means that she\u2019s going to drop the mystery routine and spill all of her secrets, right? Nope. Give that up. If you want to lose<\/em> Venus in Scorpio before you\u2019ve even landed her, you will badger her for the scoop on whatever she holds within the privacy of her heart. I recommend not pushing her to bare her soul before you\u2019ve earned her complete trust. Partial trust, I mean; Venus in Scorpio will keep one eye open as a cautionary measure as long as you\u2019re in the picture. Don\u2019t fault her for this; it\u2019s part of her wiring. <\/p>\n But do take comfort knowing that if he\u2019s still in the conversation with you, Venus in Scorpio is into you.<\/b> He may not say so in as many words, understand. But the fact that he\u2019s either hanging out with you–whether in public or private–or texting, talking, messaging\u2026means that he finds you intriguing and\/or hot. <\/p>\n On the other hand: if she stops returning your texts, calls and messages know that you have crossed a line. Winning her back may be more difficult than getting her to agree to that first date you had. What line did you cross, you may well ask? It\u2019s perhaps invisible to anyone but Venus in Scorpio. But making assumptions as to her level of interest and her availability is an insult to her. Assuming that her Scorpionic signature implies she\u2019s ready for sex just because you are is a no-no. Being clueless about balance and fairness will turn her off. Think of it this way: Venus transits 50\/50 Libra<\/em> before reaching Scorpio; so this sign intuitively understands and expects right relationship, regardless of how much obsessing she is infamous for. And Venus in Scorpio will quietly walk away if you pay zero attention to the niceties of courtship.<\/b><\/p>\n So where does that leave you if you are bent on bedding this alluring lover? Play by Venus in Scorpio\u2019s implicit rules by<\/p>\nHope You Like Chicken<\/h2>\n
It\u2019s All On You<\/h2>\n
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