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<\/p>\nCredit: savageultralight<\/a> via iStockphoto<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n Got a thing for someone with Venus in Virgo<\/a>? Need a clue that he\u2019s got a thing for you too? It\u2019s going to take some very subtle sleuthing to figure out. It\u2019s not that Venus in Virgo is trying to be crafty, but 1) he likely feels insecure about his ability to land you, and 2) he\u2019s comfortable being solo. Hence the Virgin symbol. When applied to Virgo, virgin doesn\u2019t mean sexually uninitiated; it means autonomous–whole on his own. Take both of these Virgo traits to mean that he\u2019s not taking any undue risks about revealing a crush until you\u2019ve all but declared your love for him. Still, there are a few clues that you\u2019ve shown up on Venus in Virgo\u2019s radar:<\/p>\n She offers you a helping hand. Maybe you\u2019ve got a stalled research project, and she mentions that she\u2019s got a book sitting on her shelf right now that could come in handy. Sounds dry? Think again: her offer of help means that you\u2019ll need to arrange a follow-up meeting so she can hand over the book to you\u2026which is just what she was intending when she so skillfully offered you her help in the first place. It\u2019s the “when can I see you again without making it super obvious that I really want to see you again” approach. And you\u2019d better treat her book as though it\u2019s part of the Smithsonian collection. She treasures her tomes, so it\u2019s huge that she\u2019s risking its potential damage in your grubby little paws. She won\u2019t do that for just anyone. <\/p>\n Because Venus in Virgo is a renowned wordsmith, don\u2019t be concerned if he prefers to reach out to you by email or text, instead of over the phone. It\u2019s legit. And the passing back and forth of notes can lead to some smoldering online threads. Yes, the Virgin\u2026smoldering. He reads, he writes–and he needs to know you\u2019re literate, too. You don\u2019t have to be Emily Bronte (who had Venus in Virgo, incidentally). But you do need to have something going on between the ears before he chooses to let you between the sheets. That\u2019s because Venus in Virgo has a well-honed appreciation for gray matter. Know that your brain is actually a turn-on for him, provided you don\u2019t come at him with a potty mouth that would make even the creators of \u201cSouth Park\u201d blush. Think word hygiene and follow his cues when in doubt. <\/p>\n If he engages you with witty word play–a pun or a wry remark that reveals his astute observations–he\u2019s showing off for you. Venus in Virgo is one clever cookie, and you could learn a lot from this lover, whether it\u2019s historical context, political turmoil, or even a scrumptious recipe. Remember that wordplay is foreplay<\/b>, and you\u2019ll be better prepared to respond accordingly.<\/p>\n Need something more tangible to assess Venus in Virgo\u2019s interest in you? Her energy is earthy, so a gentle touch on your arm or an accidentally-on-purpose brush of your skin is one of her more overt signals that she\u2019s noticed you. Please don\u2019t miss this cue; it\u2019s about as brazen as Venus in Virgo is going to get during the flirtation phase. She may remove a bit of lint from your jacket without warning. It\u2019s a good excuse to place her pristine hands on you. And hey, there may even be an actual piece of lint there\u2026or not. Regardless, she actually planned that precise moment to make contact with your skin or clothing, and she\u2019s really hoping you\u2019ll read that as a sign to come back with some kind of hint that you\u2019re fascinated with her. She doesn\u2019t lay her hands on everyone, so do take her delicate touch as an encouraging sign.<\/p>\n We should probably address some of the slightly negative press that Venus in Virgo may attract. Some accuse this lover of being a bit picky. Well, yes\u2026there is that persnickety potential. After all, Virgo energy gets enthused by aspirations of perfection. And if he\u2019s got a suggestion for you about how to get to that exalted state more efficiently, you\u2019ve at least landed on his radar. He may be a gentleman, but he\u2019s not going to waste his time or valuable feedback on someone he can\u2019t imagine a future with. So take that \u2018nitpicking\u2019 as a compliment. And know that he\u2019s really looking out for you.<\/p>\n One could say that \u2018fastidious\u2019 is Venus in Virgo\u2019s middle name. That seems fair, given the energetic match between health and hygiene with Virgo. If he\u2019s in your home–whether for a book club meeting or dinner a deux<\/i>–and he then chooses to return<\/i> to your home, consider it a positive sign. Whatever the state of your crib, it clearly didn\u2019t turn his stomach if he\u2019s making an encore visit. <\/p>\n People make a lot of Venus in Virgo\u2019s clean-freak nature. It\u2019s a bit of a stereotype, so let\u2019s be real: Venus in Virgo is gifted with an ability to adapt to all kinds of circumstances, including the most gritty ones. Being a mutable maiden, she can dance with varying situations better than most people. You can let go of the idea that she can\u2019t be pleased. <\/p>\n This translates into good news for you if you\u2019re concerned that you might have blown your first impression with him. Simply try again with a more refined approach. Venus in Virgo is gracious enough to give you a second chance. Should your relationship progress further, you will eventually discover his secret that few ever do: Venus in Virgo gives as good as he gets. He is a sensuous lover who will do back-flips to ensure that you are happy and satisfied, in and out of the bedroom.<\/p>\n Related:<\/b><\/p>\nAn Offer of Service<\/h2>\n
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