{"id":10909,"date":"2011-03-08T14:08:31","date_gmt":"2011-03-08T14:08:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sasstrology.com\/?p=23356"},"modified":"2011-03-19T00:27:53","modified_gmt":"2011-03-19T00:27:53","slug":"sweet-and-simple-lovecasts-for-sun-sign-harmony","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/astrologyblogger.com\/?p=10909","title":{"rendered":"Sweet and Simple: Lovecasts for Sun Sign Harmony"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Love\"<\/a>The way we fall for a lover can be attributed to a wide variety of planetary attraction factors. Venus on a Descendant or the Moon conjoining a Sun, or even something as fundamental as Venus trining a Mars \u2026 all are legitimate explanations for choosing to be with another person. What happens, then, when we get together only to find out our Sun signs just aren\u2019t supposed to be compatible? My recent book, Lovecasts: The Astrological Guide to Finding Lasting Love<\/strong><\/a>, was written to help women figure out how to deal with a lover whose Sun sign, shall we say, is not exactly harmonious with her own. Because the Sun sign is the essential quality of a person, people and their personalities will always boil down to these basic traits. It pays to know how to handle each sign as a lover so we can cater to them<\/b>, and push each sign outside its comfort zone so we get the kind of love and affection we desire, need and deserve. Here\u2019s the low-down on each sign, how he\u2019ll seduce you and more important, how you can keep him around<\/b> for that sweet, fulfilling thing we call lasting love:<\/p>\n

Aries<\/h2>\n

\"Aries\"<\/a>Aries makes decisions ultra-fast, and will walk right up to the person he or she wants and goes for it. The object of Aries\u2019 affection might not realize she\u2019s being hit on, only to be dragged back to Aries\u2019 abode for some rather sudden and passionate, if not necessarily polite or patient, sex. Yet, there\u2019s something lovable about the baby of the zodiac that makes him endearing, especially if you love being swept off your feet. Keep Aries around by always changing the scenery and engaging in at least some of the physical activity Aries loves. Think kick-boxing or mixed-sex softball or soccer. Aries loves to see you sweat, and will always appreciate knowing you totally belong to him.<\/p>\n

Taurus<\/h2>\n

\"Taurus\"<\/a>Wave anything that smacks of luxury, softness, or chocolate under the bull\u2019s nose, and he\u2019ll follow you anywhere. Taurus wants to know you will always do what it takes to make him feel comfortable, pampered and\/or adored. He will stake his claim on you to some extent, but will also insist that you show enough interest to make it worth his while. In bed, he can be very sensual and considerate. He\u2019ll look for all the places that make you crazy and make a game out of seeing how many times he can get your toes to curl. Keep him coming back to you by being as reliable as he is, and coming to realize that although he likes familiarity to the degree of easily falling into a rut, there\u2019s something wonderful about being able to predict what he\u2019s going to do next when you know how good it\u2019s going to feel!<\/p>\n

Gemini<\/h2>\n

\"Gemini\"<\/a>If you really want to be with a Gemini, you can\u2019t let him know it. Gemini\u2019s number one prerequisite in a potential lover \u2013 or even a close friend \u2013 is the ability to let him go. Yes, he\u2019s a flirt and you might never know \u201cthe truth\u201d about where he\u2019s been; but if you really want him to make at least some occasional stops in your boudoir, you\u2019re going to have to pretend you\u2019re not sitting around waiting for him to show up. The busier you are, the more likely he is to be determined to \u201cget busy\u201d – with YOU. He talks a lot, even in bed, but as long as you can keep the topic on the parts of your body that long to be caressed by his obscenely fantastic hands, you won\u2019t mind. You can keep him \u201cup for hours\u201d by continuously telling him how sexy he is, and how lucky you are that he stopped by to see you \u2026 if only just for now.<\/p>\n

Cancer<\/h2>\n

\"Cancer\"<\/a>It really isn\u2019t difficult to get the Cancer Guy to like you \u2013 all you have to do is let him hover over you. He might want to cook you dinner, help you with your dishes, or simply sit around and tell you stories about his family. There\u2019s just one drawback. Once you get a Cancer Guy, you may never get RID of him. He has an ulterior motive for having sex, and that\u2019s having a baby! He’s always thinking about the day when he can have a real, live doll to cuddle and caress. You may be able to convince him to treat you like that living baby doll for a long while before you actually give birth, and if you want to do that, just let him take care of you, and be very careful about hurting his feelings. You might want some other parts of him to be hard, but you don\u2019t want him to retreat into that impenetrable shell.<\/p>\n

Leo<\/h2>\n

\"Leo\"<\/a>Leo is a pretty transparent creature, really \u2013 he will put on a big brave show and act like he\u2019s royalty, but on the inside he\u2019s really kind of an \u201caw, shucks\u201d kind of guy. If you want to get this noble and very sexy man into your bed, though, you need to feed his ego copious amounts of attention. He will look to you for approval over and over again, hoping you notice all the things about him that make him attractive. Leo has a great ability to bring out the best in those he loves, kind of like a benevolent father. That makes him pretty awesome in bed. Once you\u2019ve been with him, you\u2019ll discover you have talents you never would have tapped with someone else. To keep Leo around, make sure you thank him for bringing you to the heights of pleasure and happiness you\u2019ve reached, and reciprocate by transforming your love and affection into something more akin to adoration and worship. <\/p>\n

Virgo<\/h2>\n

\"Virgo\"<\/a>Being with a Virgo can be easy, especially if you\u2019re the kind of person who sort of has her act together, but could really use a little adult supervision. All you have to do is learn that when he makes his little criticisms, he can\u2019t really help it! He loves to look at everything and figure out what doesn\u2019t belong in the picture, from the disheveled stack of magazines on the floor to the little fleck of spinach in your teeth. He\u2019s a bit of a control freak, but that\u2019s only because he\u2019s nervous about not being \u201cgood enough.\u201d In bed, he\u2019s a master at technique, and will satisfy you in ways you didn\u2019t know were possible. All you have to do is let him take over at least some small segment of your life. He loves to deal with details, organize you and make sure you always look and sound your best. How can you resist him? Why would you want to?<\/p>\n

Libra<\/h2>\n

\"Libra\"<\/a>The classically romantic Libra can be very sexy, but he needs a lot of warming up. Let him do all the romancing \u2013 the date he sets up for you is likely to include amenities such as candlelight, soft music and wonderful food. His witty conversation can also be very seductive. He\u2019ll compliment you and look deeply into your eyes at least pretending to hang onto your every word. If you\u2019re wondering what he\u2019s waiting for \u2013 it\u2019s your approval of him<\/em>! In bed, he\u2019ll be very romantic, and not nearly as intellectual and detached as he would like you to think. Show as much affection as you can possibly summon (not that it\u2019s at all difficult to do so!), and he\u2019ll loosen up. Once that happens, you\u2019ll be very grateful to have this gracious, sweet and undeniably good-looking partner with you in bed.<\/p>\n

Scorpio<\/h2>\n

\"Scorpio\"<\/a>Seducing Scorpio is like a joke. Because he\u2019s almost always thinking about sex, it\u2019s rarely a problem to get him to follow you to the Casbah \u2013 or anywhere you want to go and get naked! You\u2019d better be ready for the ride, though. Not only will he blow you away in bed \u2013 he\u2019ll also demand much of you in daily life. Scorpio always wants to be the best he can be, and insists that you join him in this quest. Also, he\u2019ll find out everything there is to know about you, including things you might not even know about yourself! Once you\u2019ve spilled your guts to him, you\u2019ll realize you don\u2019t know very much about him at all! Hmmmmm. Well, part of the secret of keeping your Scorpio interested is in allowing him that kind of space. It\u2019s not that he\u2019s \u201csecretive,\u201d exactly, but he can be most certainly more than a little \u201cprivate.\u201d<\/p>\n

Sagittarius<\/h2>\n

\"Sagittarius\"<\/a>Getting a Sagittarius to stay in one place long enough to propose you have sex can be a challenge! Presuming you get that far, though, you can relax and assume the rest is easy. The Sagittarius lover can be awesomely affectionate, in a \u201click me with sloppy kisses\u201d puppy-dog kind of way. The excitement alone is enough to make you feel like a million bucks, but Sagittarius also has a lot to offer in terms of physical performance. This high-energy man will always be there for you, at least while you\u2019re together, that is! The only way to keep a Sagittarius man \u201con call\u201d is to allow him the latitude to go out on his eternal quest for the new, the different, and the fascinating. Keep giving him fun and surprises, and one of the people he\u2019ll count among the \u201cdesirable\u201d will be YOU.<\/p>\n

Capricorn<\/h2>\n

\"Capricorn\"<\/a>You should never let Capricorn\u2019s outward air of acceptability scare you away. This is someone who really is dead-serious about what he does for a living and how good he is at it. Yet, because he works so hard, he often balances out his life by playing even harder! That\u2019s a very good thing when it comes to going to bed with him. Capricorn is someone who\u2019s capable of reaching the highest heights, and lucky for you, in bed he will love to dig into the lowest lows. As long as you don\u2019t make fun of some of his possibly kinky proclivities, he\u2019ll promise to keep you from complaining about not getting enough good sex ever again.<\/p>\n

Aquarius<\/h2>\n

\"Aquarius\"<\/a>Everyone who goes to bed with an Aquarius can feel good about this accomplishment, because this cool and aloof creature makes it clear you\u2019re together because he wants it that way. It\u2019s quite flattering to be singled out by one with such a discerning eye, and to be accepted by someone who has very high standards for his fellow human beings. You\u2019re in for an even greater and more pleasant surprise once you get between the sheets! He\u2019ll go out of his way to make sure he\u2019s at least one of the top three lovers you\u2019ve ever had. He\u2019ll use music, ambience and sweet music, along with his cool and seductive body and sexual technique to leave you shuddering with anticipation for your next go-round.<\/p>\n

Pisces<\/h2>\n

\"Pisces\"<\/a>The Pisces man is more emotionally oriented than most, but that doesn\u2019t mean he can\u2019t be sexy or desirable. He\u2019s got this thing about living in his own little world, and you\u2019re going to have to go there with him. Admittedly, this can be scary at first, especially when you get lost in those deep, soulful eyes of his. By the time you get to the actual lovemaking part, though, you\u2019ll go wherever he takes you. Pisces makes love with his heart and his soul as well as his body, and once you\u2019ve been with him you\u2019ll feel as though you\u2019ll never be satisfied with anything less. He\u2019s not as clingy as you might think, though \u2013 one insensitive remark from you, and he\u2019ll swim away for friendlier waters. <\/p>\n

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